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# Episode 122 A Billion Wicked Thoughts

**Speaker 0:** Tom Torero, podcast a 122, may be a long one, on a billion wicked thoughts, the book, which we shall be going through together. Maybe you read it since the last podcast, or you just wanna hear the notes I made on it. It's early Wednesday morning. I meant to be sleeping, you bastards, but I'm recording this podcast before I fly in a few hours to Slovenia. Flying to the capital city Ljubljana, not for daygame, not for a city break, but to take a car and just to get the fuck out of there into the mountains, see some forests, see some of the most beautiful lakes in the world, in the Julian Alps on the Austrian border, just to have some downtime from daygame, which is what every man needs. So pull up a chair by the fire and join uncle Tom for this first experimental book club if you like. I've not done one of these before. I don't know how it's gonna pan out, whether I'm gonna enjoy it, whether you're gonna enjoy the ride. We shall do one more anyway next week which I shall talk about at the end of the podcast. But for this week, it was the book, a billion wicked thoughts. The big data pulled out of Google Analytics by two nerds, certainly not daygame pimps, Oggy, Ogas and Sy Gadam. I think they're Silicon Valley nerds. Maybe they're married. Certainly blue pill ish. But to their credit, they just pulled out this data scientifically. The facts are raw. Raw red pill truths. It must have shocked them. Some of the information they got with this big data. And they just present it in an un PC fashion. So the mixed reviews this book has on places like Amazon is obviously because this data is shocking for married people, for monogamous people, for the kind of PC feminist brigade. This data is as raw as it gets in terms of evolutionary biology, which of course is fascinating for people like me and guys that are into game, guys that are in field, guys that have a lot of experience with girls, with dating, seeing secret society truths and this is what they uncovered. So when somebody recommended this book to me, I can't remember exactly who, a few people have years ago in Munich on a boot camp, a student said, you should read this. I think it had just come out and recently people said, oh you should definitely read this book and I did. And it's the power of the internet collecting big data, you know, putting a billion anonymous people into a darkened room, into a metaphorical darkened room and see what they do when their true desires are unleashed, they think nobody's watching. Because obviously, even though we don't know exactly who these people are, their information, their clicks, the web pages they visited, even the things they looked at on certain pages where their eyeballs hit. That's all collected. That's big data and it's fascinating for scientists. Yeah? Okay. They were looking at human desire, human sexuality, these two guys, and this is the data. And these are the notes that I made whilst reading the book. I've pulled them out. There's too many because the book is so good. So if you like anything I'm talking about today, read the book. I don't have time to go into great depth but you should make the connections yourself. So as I'm saying all this stuff, you should say, oh yeah, Tom, you've spoken about that in Street Hustle or in one of your videos or that links with evolution of desire, David Bus or Dawkins or Darwin or oh my god, that's so secret society. Every few pages I was like, holy shit. This is confirmation. Data confirmation of secret society. Things that I've experienced. So perhaps they would like my blog. Okay. The first point I pulled out is that we like to think of our own desires as normal and everybody else's desires as gross and twisted and immoral or even dangerous. So that's an interesting thing as you're looking at what other people are sexually attracted to men and women. We like to think we're the moral ones, but really we're all down and dirty Darwinian animals. Yeah? They confirm the Internet is basically used for porn. Of course, it does many other things, but what's driving it is human behavior. And human behavior fighting is just to help with the fucking because life on earth is DNA propagation. So think of the internet just being for porn. Yep. And they say from this data, the sexual brain is guaranteed to upset the politically correct, the socially conservative, and everyone in between because these are raw red pill secret society truths. And it's the first time in history really because of this big data. This is why I'm so fascinated by big data. That you can take a look at what people are searching for all over the world and break it down by sex and age and see how people in France differ from people in Japan or do they? How women in Australia differ from Canada or do they? Big data is fucking amazing for evolutionary behavioral sciences including, evolutionary psychology. So particularly, they say for women who have previously felt too mortified to be seen in the backroom of a local video rental store getting some, you know, pornos. They are finally able with the internet to explore their erotic interests in privacy and comfort or what they think of as privacy and comfort. Yep. We can collect data on what women are actually finding attractive and clicking on, etcetera. This is amazing data for pickup artist. Right. A random fact that I've noted down, across countries, across cultures, the biological rate of homosexuality, in men, global data, is five percent. That's from websites men visit. That's just an interesting fact. So you might think if you live in London, god, it's like fifty percent of guys are gay. But there seems to be a global genetic, I would say, 100% genetic component which is 5%. And that's standardized. That was interesting across the world. Okay. What men search for first of all. There are other bits about gayness in the book and that is fascinating to a biologist. Perhaps fascinating for some of you listening in other ways but, I'll leave you to go through those chapters because they don't really apply to male female dynamics. But anyway, what do men search for? So un PC to say this, but surprise, surprise. The number one search by far is youth. Okay. Teen. Teen sex. Okay. The gay stuff comes in at number two, and we'll talk about the biological reasons for that later. Milfs, number three. Again, big peaks in searching for teens and also milfs. Why is that? We'll talk about that. Breasts, come on the boobs is number four, and cheating wives, come on secret society is number five. That's the top five search terms for men globally. Remember, all this stuff is global. So we're not just looking at American guys or guys in Nigeria. This is men across the planet. Okay? Which, confirms so many things we know about men. And how limited our sexual desires are. Okay? The data shows that just 20 different interests account for 80% of all human searches. That's phenomenal. Just 20 different interests. Humans are not, they say correctly, imaginative. The singular most popular search term users enter, along with youth is, milfs as I said is the search term mum or mom. Okay. So they classify that in clicks as teens being 18 to 20 and, then the milf stuff being 35 to 50. So I hope you've got some basic biology and you've read, bits of street hustle or you understand bits of raw red pill truths and you understand why males are attracted to fertile teen girls, why that would be a search term even if guys say they're not. You know, many day games go, oh, I would never open a 19 year old girl. But they think about doing it. It's that's just social shaming. Yeah? Makes perfect biological sense. Okay? Longevity of, your mate being able to pop out babies and teens being more fertile, la di di di di, it's obvious. But why the second peak? The book spends a chapter or two looking at the milfs. Why are young guys, middle aged guys, married guys, why are we so obsessed with milfs? Well, the a quarter of men say that their first sexual fantasy was an older person because that's kind of imprinting. That's maybe the first woman you saw, a teacher or a friend of your mom or something like that, as in American Pie, the stiffer thing. But also daygamers know this, the two easiest categories of girls to to daygame for fast lover sex are those 18 to 21 year old girl teens. And then the the milfs who are having all the fun again, they're having that shot of estrogen before it all goes out the window. The hard ones are the ones that want providers, know, five, 26, 27 to early thirties, they're looking to lock a guy down for babies, babies, babies. But once she's popped a few out or she's passed that kind of yearning, then they're easier to sleep with. It's more straightforward, there's less flaking and LMR, they know what they want, sex is experienced and good. So that explains the milf stuff and these two geeky guys, they're shocked by the teen thing obviously and the milf thing but no surprise to a daygamer. Okay? And interestingly they say here, this is interesting information for pickup artists. Studies show that women between the ages of 27 and 45 actually have more sexual fantasies and a greater willingness to one night stands and casual sex than women in other age ranges because of less romantic complications. I would push it up higher than 27 in daygame. Would say, like I said, 33, 34 plus. And certainly if you watch Del Seduction, you see how straightforward it is with 19 year olds, 20 year olds, 21 year olds for same delays, bounce backs, casual sex, cheating on quote unquote boyfriends, etcetera. Okay. Let's get, down to the difference between male and female fantasies because that's right my friends. Men and women are biologically different. Shock horror. So data shows this big data. Remember billions of clicks on the web. Men prefer images, sexual images, and women prefer stories. Okay. So it really is difference in circuitry and hard wiring. So men, surprise surprise, we prefer graphic sex. That's the porn fascination. Women prefer relationships and romance. So we, for sure, have different modes of stimulation. And if you look at the female romance novel, they break all this down. The heroine is never having sex for sex is own sake, much less in personal sex with strangers. The core of a romance novel's plot is the heroine overcoming obstacles to identify, win the heart of, and marry the bad boy. Now remember, it's the bad boy that they're trying to win over. That doesn't mean she's picking up nice guys, the blue collar workers. No. She wants to tame the beast. That's the heart of beauty and the beast, the archetypal attraction stories. She wants the savage she can tame. So we'll come on to that. But just remember that women prefer stories. I've And said many times secret society stuff, men are explicit, women are implicit. Secret society is secret. It's implied first rule, you don't talk about it. Yeah. That's why the whole, hey, wanna fuck or dick pictures don't work. Okay? I'll make a video on that another time because it's so crucial. Men are assuming that women are attracted to the same things that we are. It's just not the case. Okay? Okay. Next thing I've noted down. How American porn actresses have an average weight slash body max body mass index that is lower than the average, for American, North American women. Surprise. Surprise. So even though husbands and guys and church guys might say they're happy with any body size and that all body sizes are equal and beautiful, it's simply not true. Because look at market economics, market forces, supply and demand, what are men simulating, what's in virtual porn, what's in computer characters, what's in anime, what are porn stars looking like, then as I said, they, have an average weight and body mass index that is lower. And that is the same for European porn actresses. And here's the fascinating part. The waist to hip ratios, which I say in street, hustle, they remain the same. The golden waist to hip ratio doesn't change. It's a vital visual cue for men because it's all about fertility and the exact mathematical figure for this ratio is point seven. So this throws a thing out the window of, oh, some guys love fat girls and some guys love skinny girls and some guys like this and some guys like that. Yeah. You can have big ass or small ass, big boobs, small boobs. But if you look at the waist to hip ratio across history, historical characters, playboy additions, it doesn't change. So surprise, surprise, this is hardwired. Men are extremely visual. Okay? Okay. The most searched body part for females that men search for in every country across the planet. I've already mentioned it but you'll probably guess it. It's boobs. Okay? No matter what the size, they are the most popular female body part in internet searches. Guys that are searching for foot fetishes, they are also the same guys that would have, an enjoyment of bondage or submission porn. So foot size is key in evolutionary biology. We like women with small feet. They explain more of why men in some men in particular love feet and what that signals but yeah you've got a correlation there with bondage and submission porn here's a funny one okay for a bit of gay game but not really gay game there's a logical biological reason for this. And this surprised me this chapter. Men are more interested online and in their searches in dicks than women, especially looking at and searching for large dicks. The eye tracking data shows this as well, that when there is porn going on, women are not looking at dicks. It's the men. What the fuck? Why straight men looking at other men's dicks? Well, evolutionary biologists can tell you. Looking at dicks that are ready for sex, it's a sign of male male aggression. Males are doing this to mark territory. Richard Dawkins says an erection is the visible sign of a male's general health. So it's it's competition basically. It's status at play. And this is why men are comparing and judging and looking for these aggressive signals. So there is explanation. Do not fear. Okay? And you're probably doing that subconsciously. But interestingly how men worry about that dick size and what she's gonna think and really the woman's wrapped up in the story and in the dominance idea and in in the other fantasies that will come on to. And it always makes me laugh when I get an email about a guy thinking he has a small dick. I say, look, if you've got her all the way back to your apartment and your clothes are coming off, the game's done. Don't you worry about that. Okay. She might go, oh no, you know, small dick, whatever. But you're still gonna fuck. Okay. It's not like you're doing daygame naked or maybe some guys are. I don't know but it's just always seems like a bizarre question. Don't focus on that. Right. Why anime confirms all these things even though social justice people hate the idea that this is all inbuilt. This is genetic. This is hardwired. You can't change it. These are core differences. Right? Anime shows you what men really love. This is why it's so popular. Because they cleverly, through artificial selection of their art, they exploit men's hardwired visual cues. Hence, think of an anime girl. Yeah. Really popular baby eyes, high pitched voice, the school uniform, Japanese kinky thing, an inexperienced shyness, the exact same low waist to hip ratio, her small feet. Bingo. These are the things guys are searching for. And what do you know? Humans created a cartoon character that fulfills this and fulfills loads and loads of Japanese guys and men around the world. But there you go. That proves this is what we are attracted to. Okay. Shock horror. Shock horror. This must have, really angered the Amazon reviews. Men naturally objectify women, And women like being sexually objectified in terms of dating and mating. This is hardwired. Say the two authors. Don't you, put that in Tom Torero quotations. This is from the book, my friend, from billions and billions of people clicking. Whether you like it or not. Okay? We'll come on to objectifying and dominance later but that is a fact that slaps half of the world across the face. They say interestingly, we have our sexual interests interests fixed fixed in in adolescence. Adolescence so female ornamentation you know some guys liking breasts or hips or buttocks all these things show fertility and interestingly short term fertility like same day lays ideal for short term encounters would be smaller so smaller breasts skinnier smaller butts where whereas future fertility signals they say showing kind of long term relationship things guys that are perhaps looking for that maybe they're the guys that are interested in bigger boobs bigger hips bigger butts that's something to think about but they separate lover and provider in that sense And yeah, what's available in your environment when you're younger, let's say you see loads of big boobs or loads of small boobs or loads of a certain type of girl in your teenage years, that's imprinted. That just means that's what you love. This explains why guys have different fetishes around the world, different cues. Okay. I'll skip on because we're running out of time. There's so much good stuff. As I said, read the bloody book if you're a player. Let's go back to this. Women getting aroused visually. In all the tests, in all the studies, it's very low. This is fascinating. There is a dissociation between the conscious arousal of the female mind and the unconscious or semi conscious arousal of the female body. This is key. So, many women watching porn, they might think logically, oh, I should be attracted to this. Oh, that that's quite attractive. But when their pussies were measured for moist ness, what a lucky scientist who who did that study, the the physiology, their their biology was not getting turned on. Here's the shocking thing, women were getting aroused physically by watching some things that disgusted them like severe dominance. A woman's body responds, even if her mind is disgusted or, she doesn't feel logically attracted. What do you know? Her pussy is soaking wet. Those pages where they're describing that, that is fascinating. Again, it explains why guys are thinking they wanna turn a girl on logically when different things turn her on physiologically when she's ready for sex. Yep. For men, it's easy. There's a super strong correlation between the mind and the body. But women need to feel psychologically aroused, to get physiologically aroused. So sex for women has potentially massive life altering consequences. Yeah? Cheap sperm, expensive eggs because you might get pregnant, then there's the nurse, there's a decade of child raising, there's resources to get. This is why in history, in human history, a woman who just blindly gave into every sexual urge faced huge challenges slash death. Yeah? So the female brain has evolved into the most sophisticated, they say, neural software on earth. It's a system designed to uncover, scrutinize and evaluate a dazzling range of clues and the authors call this the miss Marple Detective Agency. She's a famous, English, grandma detective character, which separates her mind from her body or at least tries to and intercepts the signals coming from her body preventing them from triggering arousal. This is when we talk in secret society and red pill about forebrain and hindbrain and anti slut defense and token LMR and hamster ing and why women can want to have sex with you but they don't. There's this key, very evolved thing going on where they're also scrutinizing you with shit tests and is he a man or a mouse? Is is his house built on built bricks or straw? I talk about that in street hustle. The battle that the woman has and you can often see on her face on a date or back at yours. That's fascinating. They look at ovulation cycles and we know this from daygame in terms of same day lays and spotting ovulating girls and fertile girls. They say correctly from data, a woman's ovulation cycle is very sensitive to the physical environment. Women are much more likely they say than men to report a decrease in sexual desire due to physical illness, hunger or anxiety about physical security. So that's perhaps where the whole dinner dating thing came from. But making women feel comfortable with rapport and if they're feeling a physical illness it'll turn them right off. And quite rightly they've got this spot on. They say a man's true character cannot be evaluated as swiftly or as easily as a woman's boobs. Men with visual, we look at a woman, we say she's a nine, she's hot, she's fertile, let's go. Okay. But women, because of those risks, they have to look for other clues. They're amazing at it. The man's reputation, his social status, if other women are eyeing the same guy, preselection. Mystery Method, yeah? Women ask other women. This is why women are more verbal than men. This is why women evolved to socialize. I repeat, men and women are different. And this is why. Okay? A woman's social environment is absolutely crucial to her for this information gathering on men. The male brain is the opposite. So when they when men have a heightened physical threat like perhaps there's an imminent war coming, this increases, this enhances male desire because sperm are cheap. If you're gonna go into battle, fuck it. Fuck a lot because you're about to get killed perhaps. Fascinating data. Here we go. In the history of the human race, 80% of the women on earth reproduced whereas only 40% of the men reproduced. So men evolved to take chances because only some of those guys, 40% were were fucking the 60% weren't. Genetic lineage was just dying out. So men evolved to take these crazy chances. They were conquering. They were going into battle. They say sailing off to the unknown, doing crazy things. This is genetically beneficial. This is your, I was gonna say duty, but that sounds like this god given thing. This is your genetic drive, okay, to grab life by the horns. It's completely the opposite for women. It makes no evolutionary sense. Women should not take chances because remember, 80% of women reproduce. They were having sex. Women should play it safe. Yeah. Be nice. Go along with the crowd. Blend into the crowd. Listen to the crowd of women because it gives you feedback. Okay? And kick in the system. There's a little bit some why women, started drinking alcohol and the effect this has of slightly shutting off that miss Marple detective agency for them which they enjoy because they're stopping this drive for perfection and they take a guy after a couple of glasses of wine in the Roman Empire and say, yeah, he's good enough. It quietens down that full brain. So that's an interesting thing. Okay. Back to romantic literature which is female porn. Because if women are not that visual, it's all about the emotional, it's all about the story. And these are as old as time quite literally. What women are attracted to when they're telling each other stories or now reading and watching Netflix. The males are virile. The males are dangerous. Okay. In romantic fiction, this is interesting, in 2008, $1,370,000,000 was earned. That is the largest share of the fiction market. That is more profit than porn. That is fucking phenomenal. So when women are saying they're not interested in porn, they're kind of right but for 50 Shades of Grey and all these tacky books and, tacky TV shows, holy shit. Okay? Women really are into this romantic hero stuff. And in these books and films and plots, the emphasis is on a character's emotions and interactions. The whole massive internet thing of fan fiction that is almost entirely female driven. And the most common professions of the men in these stories that women come up with themselves, so this tells you a lot. In romantic fiction, they are things like cowboy, her boss, her doctor, a bodyguard, a sheriff, a rancher. Okay? And you can immediately think of characters that women come up with which they find appealing. Note, my friends, my blue pill friends, there are no blue collar workers. Alright? These are all powerful, dangerous men. They were also older, high social status men. So surprise, surprise. Well, this is not at all surprising for guys that do infield pickup or are into game. Okay? Study after study after study proves that, high erotic appeal comes down for females to male dominance. Women love bad boys and there's pages on why women love serial killers, shock horror, so on PC. Sorry, nice guys. Serial killers in jail, they get more fan mail from hot girls than you ever will. Why is that? Well, I've spoken about it for ages. But it comes down to male dominance. Yeah? A great line in the book, which every man should have framed on his wall, I'm gonna use it in some form. The two authors say, no man is born dominant. He must strive for it. Women are born with, the looks, with the beauty, which fades very quickly. For men, it is a marathon. You're not born dominant. You must strive. You must become it. Fascinatingly, very un PC, the authors say, women desire for themselves to be sexual objects and their clicks and their internet searches across the globe, billions of billions of data points prove this, which again the Amazon reviewers hate. Okay? This is so controversial if you're straight laced. Women desire for themselves to be sexual objects. Why they enter wet t shirt competitions in Cancun? Why they're sexting and, taking up pole dancing, why young girls want to be strippers. Okay? And you can try and stop this happening. But this is how the female brain has been hardwired for millions of years. Controversial pages, again, in Sperm Wars, but unsurprising for a guy who knows about evolutionary biology, why women have rape fantasies, because they're operating on ancient circuitry and it comes back to dominance and submission. There's a lot about jealousy and cheating, cuckolding, like in sperm wars, why males get sexually jealous and females don't, but females get emotionally jealous. So again, if you understand lover and provider and sperm cheap egg is expensive, none of that's surprising to you. If you've read Evolution of Desire or Sperm Wars or Darwin's Dangerous Idea or Selfish Gene or Rational Male, you'll have come across these ideas before, but it's so interesting that data proves it and shows it. Again, it comes back to ovulating girls and how she desires different men during her ovulation. She's looking for the strong genes. So that's looks and dominance. Game is the dominance bit. And when she's not ovulating, she's looking for resources. Once again, this confirms love of provider, secret society stuff, and how men guard their partners, their female partners more during her ovulation to stop the cook holding because she's more likely to cheat and that's when they Google cheating. Women who have high sex drives, talks about they talk about bisexual women and lesbians and the gay stuff as well but high sex drive women is associated with fascinatingly an increased attraction to males and females. So, women who have high sex drives, they're the ones you should go for, for threesomes. They're going to be bi. Okay? They talk about cuckoldry in terms of one out of 30 men are raising a child that, is not his. And they talk, as I've mentioned, about male sexual jealousy and often leading to violence and murder. Think of Othello or OJ Simpson. And again, a link to the book Sperm Wars Robin Baker. And I shall finish it by saying, a fascinating thing from the end of their book. They say men believe or they want to believe deep down that all women are as sexual, and as explicit and as, black and white thinking as they are. This is the whole idea of males men going up to women, hey, you wanna fuck or sending them awful Tinder messages, hey, what's up? Wanna hook up? And, the opposite of that is that women deep down believing that all men are emotional goo inside just like them. So the message of this whole book is that it's hard for men and women to accept that, male desires and female desires are not the same in the opposite sex. So men want to believe that women think like we do. Women want to believe that men think like they do. And that explains all the dilemmas you've ever had since being a teenager or in a relationship or engaged or married or whatever. But none of that should have come as a surprise to daygamers, people into pickup as I said. But if you're actively in field, it's worth reading the book and highlighting bits that, you wanted reminding little nuggets of gold in there. I specifically I thought the stuff on the romantic hero and what women are actually looking for, all that was fascinating. If you want the maths, if you want the data, if you want the graphs, it's all in there. So God bless those geeks, Ogi Ogas and Sy Gadam. I enjoyed your book, A Billion Wicked Thoughts, and I would thoroughly recommend it to, players, pimps, hustlers, etc. We've gone over half an hour but only by a bit. See glancing at my dictaphone so we're going to leave it there. I'm going to go to bed because I'm going to Slovenia in a few hours. Not to think about any of those things but as I said to see lakes mountains and forests and perhaps to fly the drone but next week the second of the Tom Torero book club by the fire as these nights draw in with a chill in the air we shall be going through the book clism. It's linked below by Christian Rudder. Another book on big data, but this time looking at the dating site that he helped found, OkCupid and the backdoor big data that is revealed in the book. Again, absolutely fascinating. Loads of confirmation of secret society. So if you've been skeptical about street hustling, stealth seduction, daygame, pickup, blue pill, red pill, alpha, beta, does all this stuff exist? Well, big data can now show you. So if you want to read along with me, read it this week. Dataclysm by Christian Rudder. If not, I'll be summarizing it next week. That was podcast a 122. Keep grabbing life by the horns, and I'll speak to you next week. Tada.