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# Episode 147 Same Day Lay (Red Letter Days)

**Speaker 0:** Tom

**Speaker 1:** Torero podcast a 147 on Good Friday. Well, this might be going out on Easter Saturday or even Easter Sunday when our lord rises. So, god bless you on and off from inside the van. But that's today's topic, red letter day, special days in daygame. Special days in your daygame career, but more interestingly today, special days for the girl. She's walking around and she's glowing with energy. It's a special day for her. That's what we'll talk about. And lo and behold, she meets a daygamer. I am once again in the van. I am still in the Baltics. And I would say this is the last day of winter. I think I've said that on the last two podcasts, but there's snow on the ground. It was minus five in the night, minus six. But I've seen next week's temperatures and it's looking good and the sun is shining and I'm not alone. I'm not with a Victoria's Secret model, or a same day lay in the van, but I'm with a daygamer. I've kept all the windows escalation will happen in this podcast. But this is a daygamer I know from London. I think we did a boot camp about maybe less than a year ago, maybe more than a year ago. I can't remember, but he'll tell you. So we we randomly met in this city, and lo and behold, the first thing he said was, I've got a story for you. Lo and behold, about a girl who was having one of those red letter days. The definition of a red letter day, if you're not a nerd like me, is I think from the Roman calendar when the Romans used to mark special occasions with red. And obviously, royal robes are red. And in medieval times, scripts started with red letters. So that's the term. I think it's familiar as well to Americans. Red letter day is like a special day. And obviously, daygamers have special days. The first time you approach, which is probably a boot camp or, you know, drunk or a friend pushing you in. And then you'll never forget your first number, or you'll never forget your first direct approach. You'll never forget your first number. You'll never forget the first girl you dated from daygame. Your first lay, like, come on. That is monumental if it's from daygame. Your first relationship from daygame, and then the weird stuff starts happening, you know, the first make out from daygame on the street or the first bounce back street to your house. So then the first same day lay, first same day delay. The first trip you have, mine was to the Baltics. Interestingly enough, it was to Vilnius, I think. That was my first ever daygame trip. And then, you know, the the stuff that you dream of, maybe it's on your tick list, that your first threesome, not just with your wing, but with two girls or your first foursome or whatever. These are red letter days. And no matter what somebody says, you don't forget them. And I hope I'm 70 or 80 and I'll remember mine. I've got YouTube videos to document all this stuff as well. But special days. But lo and behold, we also meet girls walking around cities who seem to be having special days. And when I say red letter, you think, oh, she's on her period. She's on the rag. Well, weirdly, I'm saying, no. She's actually halfway through the month. You've heard me talk about this before, ovulating girls. Yep. Some girls are horny on their periods before their periods, after their periods, I know. But biologically and biologists are much more interested in day 14 of the cycle. I won't go into it now because I've made a video on it. Just type in street hustle ovulating girls, I think, or ovulation window. Anyway, day 14, girls walking around. Golden question, how do you know she's ovulating? I how do you know she's horny? How do you know she's looking for lovers? I've said the tikkulous before, I think. She has a dreamy walk. She wears tighter clothes. And there's a report out that says her clothes might be red or pink. You can look at that report. Not always true, but it's interesting. She is putting herself in situations where she could meet a guy. So why is she there so early in the morning? Or why is she there at 10PM at night alone? Makes no sense. Remember, girls don't know any of this stuff, by the way. It's all subconscious. Swaying hips, tighter fitting clothes. You speak to her and the first thing you notice is the eyes. She has these electric eyes, the anime eyes they say in America or the, the mesmer, I think they say in London. And you think, hang on a minute. This is weird. This is a different set. And your first reaction is to go, this is too good to be true. What's wrong with this girl? And yes, sometimes she's it's just a pissed girl or I've met girls that are on drugs. Okay. It's not the same delay. It could be, but it's not what I'm talking about. This is a biological thing. So her eyes are on fire. She's sparkling. Maybe she's flushed. She's speaking very slowly. It's really dreamy. Recently, I've noticed that it's like, you know, in test goes or I don't know in America, in Walmart, self checkout. And it's fun. You can scan all the items yourself and you're scanning things and sometimes they don't scan. But sometimes you get it just right and it goes beep. And you get like, yeah, it gives you a little buzz. And when I talk to girls, I'm trying to lay my tiger eyes on them and often it doesn't work. But with these girls, as soon as you go, sorry, I hope you speak English. The eyes just you you're moving in whatever you believe in sync or if you believe in energy or I don't know what it is. Something's on and very quickly a daygamer goes, okay, this is different. Same day lay or same day delay, which just means the same day lay where you have a little gap in the middle. You take her number and you meet her that day later. Gutter games obviously part of this because you're pushing for fast lays. But enough of me jibber jabbering. Good god. Six minutes of Tom Torero with a guest waiting. But I had to give you that introduction because that was the the topic of, today. I won't talk about my same day lays, or my memorable daygame moments. I'm gonna pass over to mister j. Mister j, do you wanna introduce yourself, say where we met? It wasn't on Grindr, but, give us a bit of the backstory, just a quick summary, and then we'll get into this juicy bit. No blood involved, I don't think. I think this was an ovulating girl. Right. Thanks, Tom. Where did I where did I meet you, mister j? What's your daygame back then?

**Speaker 0:** Right. So I first met you last summer in London. We did a boot camp, as you said. I was aware of you from a few years ago actually. I first learned about daygame seven or eight years ago now, and I sort of dabbled in it. I started doing a bit of daygame then, but I was quite young at the time, only about 20 years old. This was in London? This was in London. Yeah. Which is just when it was really taking off. And, yeah, I did quite a few sets then. I met some of the the the people, sort of the the leading PUAs at the at the time and the leading daygamers. And, yeah, I was I was just basically cutting my teeth becoming a decent daygamer, and then I got into a relationship. I'm sure you've met many people like that, you know, they they they start off doing a lot of daygame, and then they meet someone, and then it's like, oh, actually, this is I really like her. And before you know it, five years has has gone past. Alright? So I got into a But you learned a lot. I I did Yeah. I did learn a lot. Yeah. I'm sure you did. I have some regrets from it, but it's also some some positives to take from it. It was I I I did learn a lot. How old are now? I'm 27, nearly 28. So game up. Fine. So, yeah. Got out of the relationship, and I thought, right, time to time to crack on with the daygame, because I never really I didn't really do it properly back then. I only sort of dabbled in it, and it's obviously moved on quite a lot since then. I was I'd been kind of following your content, and that was some other daygamers as well over the over the years, but you know, not not looking too hard into it because it would it would have been too tempting just to just to start doing it again. Anyway, so I start daygaming, and then the opportunity came up to do the the boot camp last year, and I thought, well, Tom doesn't doesn't do that many of them, and I'd I'd like to meet the guy. I have a I have a habit of trying to meet people I actually, you know, learn a lot from, and just, you know, try just to get a sense of them, not even so much for the the tuition itself, because you know, I I I had done enough approaches at that point to know that I I wasn't a complete beginner. And actually, if you I guess you might remember the the boot camp went really really well after a slow start. I ended up, I think I think I got seven numbers that day. And I'd like And you sent me some messages after. And I did, yeah, because I One of the one of the girls, probably the cutest girl I've Probably the the cutest girl's number I got from that boot camp I took out the next day, and and I banged her. Was she Baltic as well? She was Norwegian. Oh, close. Yeah. So that was that was great. I thought, fantastic. Here we go. Yeah. And I've been daygaming since then. There's been I've had other stuff going on in my life, which have which has meant that I'm pretty busy and will be for the next month or two. So it hasn't been I haven't been doing quite as much as I'd like, but whenever I've had the opportunity, I've come to places like this one in the Baltics to do a bit of day game because I I really really enjoy being in Eastern Europe if I've been a bit of a Can't say this is Eastern Europe, man. Oh, yeah. Central

**Speaker 1:** Europe, quote unquote. Anyway. Anyway. Guys are going, who was this girl you met?

**Speaker 0:** Yeah. So so I arrived here on what, Tuesday night. And on Wednesday, I'm like, right, let's do a bit of daygame. So I went out and was it's bloody cold. It is cold, but it's it's sunny, isn't it? It's actually is actually quite pleasant weather. Skiing weather. Yeah. Crisp and cold. Not many clouds. Yeah. Crisp. Crisp is the word. Right? And yeah. Yeah. So it was it wasn't that bad really. Just, you know, walked around. If you if I felt cold, I was going for a quick coffee. And yeah, it was going well. I think I did about maybe maybe 10 approaches, three numbers I think, maybe an Instagram. And I had a set up for the next day. Right? So it gets to sort of 10:00. Right? And normally, have dinner at the usual time, but I I had quite a late dinner because I was just I've been so busy daygaming. Have my dinner and I have I sort of half eat my pizza, and I put it in a doggy bag because I actually don't want the rest of it. And so I'm walking home, right, through the the one of the main streets here. And as I'm walking home with my doggy bag of pizza, I clock out of the my kind of peripheral vision that there's a girl walking towards me, and she'd There was something about her. Right? There was something about her walk. Maybe she was just moving a bit more to the side than usual, a bit more latitude in her in her walk. Mhmm. That I I can't quite put my finger on it, but suddenly I just I just thought, right, I'm gonna I'm gonna go and say something. Right? And it it's nighttime. At night, it's about half ten. This is not really when I would usually Tuesday night. On a Tuesday night Yeah. I haven't done a great deal of gutter game in my life, but whatever. People here are pretty friendly. So I I opened, said a few words in the in the local language. Excuse me, do you speak English, but in the in that language, which is something I like to do, just immediately take myself out of the sex tourist Kids. Box. And yeah, within seconds, I could just immediately tell that this girl's a bit different. She's on a slightly different wavelength to the average person. Right? She immediately she'd I I I think I opened on her hat. She was wearing one of those cute little bobbly hats, and I just said, hey, I I noticed your hat and I thought it was really cute. And she sort of started talking immediately and she sort of took that as a starting point, she I think she sort of spoke for about thirty seconds a minute after that. So immediately, I'm like, right, this is a bit different. She she hasn't just taken a compliment, but she's sort of gone with it and talked I think she talked a bit about how she was styling herself on some character in a film that she'd seen. I I can't remember the details. But immediately, I was like, alright, this this girl's a bit different. And we got talking, and immediately, actually, at some point in the interact in the interaction, I I asked the question, are you off to now? Thinking she'd say, I'm going home. And she said, oh, I'm off to my nest. And I said, a nest? What? Mean, do do you live in a are you are you a bird? Do you live in a in a tree? And she goes, no. No. No. No. Actually don't have a a a fixed home. There's just a bunch of places that I can go where, I mean, I'm part of this kind of circle of of people, who are really easygoing, and, you know, if we just need a place to stay at night, then we just ring each other up and we can do it. Later on, I found out that it's basically just the the local sort of hippie crowd of like pop smokers. Right? Perfect. And I thought, right, here we go. This is a this is an interesting prospect. So we're talking for, I don't know, five, six minutes on the street. As I said, it was mainly her talking rather than me, and I was getting cold. Right? It was half ten at night Very cold. And I'm like, you know, this is okay. I I could I could feel my verbal skills being affected by the fact that I've that I was cold. So I said, hey, let's, you know, do do you drink? It's it's quite cold here. Why don't we go to a to a bar and continue this there? Can I just ask you something? By this stage, had your brain

**Speaker 1:** made the same day lay decision? Had you already smelt it?

**Speaker 0:** I had smelt it. I couldn't say I'd made a decision because I hadn't I haven't done a same day lay before. This was my first one. Alright? So it I couldn't put it into this sort of category of, oh, yeah. Here we go. This is, this is, I've trodden this path before. Okay. Because I it's but but but the I definitely thought to myself, alright, there's there's something going on here. Otherwise, I'd have just taken the number and continued gone gone home and tried to get her out on a date. Right? But it was late and I I'm on holiday at the moment. I had no reason to wake up. I thought, oh, why not? And she she as I said, she was very friendly and spoke good English, blah blah blah. Anyway, so she's is it then when I said, oh, let's go to the why don't we go to a bar and, you know, continue it there where it's a bit warmer? She actually said, oh, no. Don't drink. And my heart sank a little bit there because I thought, right, well this is a bit this doesn't quite add up. You know, she's she's seemed like a bit of a rebel. It turned out later on that she, you know, had been held back at school for being badly behaved, blah blah blah. Right? These these kind of girls tend to like their alcohol. So then I said, well, why don't you drink? And she then said, oh, well actually, the thing is that when I do drink, tend to get really confessional and I open up too much and I was like, oh, okay. Obviously, in my head, I'm like, ding ding ding ding ding. Right? Yeah. Yeah. Right. Not trying not to show it, but I'm like, oh, okay. That's that's a shame. Well, tell you what, I I I'm gonna say I'm really cold, but you seem you seem quite interesting actually, you're not just You've got a bit, you know, you've got a bit of chat. Quite interesting, I like that. Why don't we go to a bar, I'll have a beer and you can have some juice or something. So she said, yeah, okay, that sounds fair enough. So I took her to one of my favorite date spots here and then the date started.

**Speaker 1:** Do you want me to go on and talk about the date or if you're Yeah. No. This is good this good is stuff. I'm more interested as well in the decision making Okay. Than you.

**Speaker 0:** I guess it's just automatic, really. I mean, I I As I said, I haven't had a same day lay before, but, you know, I've consumed enough of enough content, a little bit by you, to to know that there are signals. Right? There are there are things that you should look out for, and she sort of fit the fit the bill, if you like, of being the kind of girl who would probably fit into that category of same day lay. Right? As I said, she, didn't have a fixed place to stay. She stayed in these nests as she called them. She, was held back at school.

**Speaker 1:** Trip somewhere in there? Of course, you can. While you while you think about the rest of the date, and guys wanna know about the bounce home as well, obviously. But I know exactly what guys are thinking right now because I've done enough fucking seminars where I tell stories like this. And guys go, yeah, yeah, yeah, Tom, you you you go for these kind of girls. And I say, what do you mean kind of girls? And you even use the phrase, she's this kind of girl, which in a way I agree with. Like, on my tick list, I think she's she's hit all of them except for like tattoo and piercing and whatever, but maybe she had that as well. But So guys will go, and this is the main problem in the daygame community that we briefly chatted about. They'll go, well, yeah, it's all very well, but you're just picking up this kind of girl. And Tom, that's really not the kind of girl I would be going for, so I don't do same day lays. I like PhD girls in museums. So you're saying she's a type of girl that you can say in day lay, you know, rebellious, she's an outsider, a weed smoker, she drinks, whatever whatever whatever. But when you do enough same day lays or you just read an evolutionary biological textbook and you see age brackets, like how old was this girl? 20. Yeah. 20. So she's falling into this time in her life, 18 to 21, where where she is rebellious and where she does do these kind of things. And, then after the age of 21, maybe when she's 24, 25, 27, she'll have a different phase in her life. And then she might get married and have kids, then after that, she'll have a different phase in her life. It's the same girl. Right? And what I what I just wanted to raise in this podcast was that even that girl, that was a few nights ago, but let's say we wait fourteen days or wait till she's on her period or she's off the ovulation, the peak ovulation, she might not behave at all like she she was when you met her. You know, she might not be walking around at 10PM. She might not be dreamy. She might be quite stressed, you know, PMT. She might certainly not be looking to get late. She might be anti men at that time of the month. She might be a bit more sensible at that time of the month. I've met girls where she's like, no, exams, you know, it's Easter. I'm trying to be good. Often, kills go. I'm trying to be good. Last week, I did something crazy with this guy. Right? This week, I'm being good. And what she really means is she's listening to her body. So I keep arguing in seminars. There's no such thing as good and bad girls. Girls are shape shifters. Right? So, again, you're this type of daygamer that that did pull the trigger and went for the same delay. There's many daygamers that would have taken the the number or presented themselves as the thing, and maybe she would have had a sweet relationship with them, you know. So I like to argue that all girls in the right situation at the right time of the month and the right age will do this. And I've done same day lays with ballerinas, lawyers, engineers, PhD graduates, you know, long hair, short hair. It's silly to polarize. Why I'm nagging is because guys will therefore only go out and try and same day lay tattoo girls, you know. They won't try it with the long haired lawyer. And I'm saying be more subtle and look for the eyes, look for the walk, look for the hair flick, just look for the weird behavior. So I like that tit list, but anyway, 10 to talk about a bit more about the date. And then was there a moment when you thought, right, pull the trigger? Because because same day lay's can fizzle out.

**Speaker 0:** Yeah. I mean, you know, some dates you think, right, I've got a I've I've I've got a challenge here. This isn't gonna be so easy. Right? Like, I've got a I've really got pull out all the stops. Yeah. The menu. Yeah. You know, warm her up. If I'm honest with you, from the off, I just felt like, okay, this is mine to lose here. I just I what what I need to focus on is not screwing this up rather than actively doing this stuff to try and Good. You know? So, you know, that we're talking about the date, and despite having good English, she was just she was one of those girls who sort of spoke a lot, but wasn't making that many coherent points. Right? So I was it was actually a bit of a of a struggle to sort of work out what each point she was making actually was. Right? Yeah. But, you know, I did I did my best and I sort of, you know, gradually guided the the conversation towards the topics of, you know, being adventurous and, you know, the the usual spiel. Yeah. And I noticed that she had a a tattoo. Of course, she did. What is the dress? And so I said, show me that that tattoo you've got. And she pulled up her sleeve a bit more and I could see It was quite an unusual shape. I couldn't really work out initially what it was, but on a closer inspection, it was two people. Right? As if, sorry, two two heads. Right? But where with one being upside down, if you see what I mean. Right? So it was kind of one of those nice little Yeah. Sort of patterns, right, where you on close inspection, it's it's two heads, but you can't see that immediately. Right? And I was like, oh, that's interesting. Why why why have you got that? And she was like, oh, well, because I just always feel like I just feel like there's two people within me. I feel like there's, you know, sometimes I'm more like this person and sometimes I'm more like that person and it's sort of, you know, this is a I feel like it's a very important part of me, so I wanted to get a tattoo of it. And I said, you know, do do you feel like or some maybe there's word for that name, schizophrenic. She said, no, I'm not schizophrenic. Right? She she's like, no, I'm not schizophrenic. And then and then she went on to qualify and it it sounded like she was basically describing a schizophrenic person. Anyway, didn't I didn't delve into That that too

**Speaker 1:** sums up the podcast. The the all women, I would argue, have that. They are two different people at two times of the month. Uh-huh. Definitely. You've

**Speaker 0:** had a girlfriend? Yep. You you know that. Yep. We all know that. Yeah. So anyway, and right. So the the she she she's got her hand out. Right? We're sitting opposite each other at this point. Right? In hindsight, what I To speed up the date even more, and as it was, it was fairly short, but I'd I'd have probably sat next to her. I probably should have sat next to her from the start, but whatever. We're we're sat opposite each other. She puts her hand out. I'm looking at the the tattoo which is on her the inside of her arm, and I leave my hand on her hand while I'm looking at it and she doesn't withdraw her her arm at all. Right? And we're talking about the tattoo and what it means and stuff and but all the time, my hand's on her hand for a good five minutes or something and she's not like noticeably feeling uncomfortable about it. But that was the point where I thought, right, okay, this is this is really on here. She would withdraw her her hand if she was Yeah. Very nice. Yeah. So

**Speaker 1:** Bounce home?

**Speaker 0:** Yeah. She she said I said, oh, should we should we get another drink? And she was like, no, I I I feel like I've had enough wine. I don't don't wanna have too much more or else I'll get really drunk. I was like, oh, okay. Well, I'd like a bit more alcohol and I've got some wine at home and a bit of juice, you know, if if you wanna have that instead. I mean, should have said she she did in fact end up taking the wine in the in the in the bar when we went there, so you know, she she she'd already shown herself to be a bit inconsistent, right, she's saying one thing doing another. Anyway, said, okay, yeah, let's let's go back to mine for a for a for a nightcap and yeah, there was no resistance at all really, she just said, yeah, okay, fine. Okay, you know, with this this is a this is an unusual girl, right, the average girl would have a home to go to, right, like, she would be but this this girl was just staying in her unquote nest for the for the night. So I thought, well, this this shouldn't be too hard because it's not like she's got commitments as such. Anyway, bounced her home, took her back to

**Speaker 1:** my apartment here. Any token out of her?

**Speaker 0:** In the bed, actually, yeah, there was a bit, and she didn't like, to how do put this? Yeah. It didn't it wasn't like all the clothes came off immediately and that was that. Right? I probably spent a good hour, hour and a half sort of escalating and it was, you know, on, off, on, off. Right? You because, you know, the the the most I'd say the most important thing I've I've I've ever learned in game is the this concept of fractionation, right, being on and off, being on off, on off, on off. That's the trick to it. And even then, she didn't, you know, she wouldn't let me take her bra off initially, so, you know, rolled off a little bit, talked a little bit more, talked a bit more about the music we were listening to, blah blah blah. Anyway, in the end, yeah, the the the clothes came off and she would she was wild, to be honest. Like, she she really she really got into it, and, like, I I really didn't get much sleep that night, to be honest. But, yeah, it was it was a real a real textbook, you might say, s SDL.

**Speaker 1:** Not STD. That's a that is a problem of ST. But, yeah, cracking story, mate. And people will go or some daygamers will go, yeah, but it was a yes girl. And the more the more you do SDLs, you think, well, you still have to do a lot of work as in opener and know how to do the instant day and then know how to escalate with a hand and then the hardest bit, say, let's go back to mine. And then the really hard bit, which is to be expected with SDLs. With fast pulls, you generally get LMR, token LMR. You get a lot. Often you get way more than obviously on a date because you've skipped comfort. And she's got to show some sign of, you know, making it not too easy. And but my favorite bit's the tattoo, really, and this split personality because that sums up that girl and all girls. And I it'd be interesting to meet her when she's 27. You know, she might have had the tattoo removed. So she'd be a completely different person. But it'd be even more interesting to meet her later on in the month. But with their age thing, it will it will change. One other thing to say about the,

**Speaker 0:** well, you know, you just you got lucky. Like, the yeah. I did. Right? Like, as as as you often say sometimes the daygame gods are smiling on you and you and a god pops up and you don't have to do a great deal of work. And as as I've as I explained, I didn't have to do an enormous amount of work here. Was more about not screwing it up and taking the, opportunities when they when they arose. But I was thinking about this afterwards. I only approached her because I spent quite a few hours doing doing approaches in the day. Right? I I know for a fact that I would not have gone to talk to her at half ten at night had I not been in that sort of state of mind where I'd I'd I was in a good mood, I'd got several numbers, I had a date arranged for the next day, I'd have quite happy with going home, but I thought, you know what, why not? So it's, you know, that's the grind you have to put in in order to you you make your own luck. Right? That's a that's a that's a that's a one of my favorite sort of Yeah. Axioms or you know, phrases and like it it it's really true. Right? I'm I I feel like I had to make that luck.

**Speaker 1:** And if you're out on the street long enough, it's in a way I feel like you bloody earn it, you know, because if you're at the casino table long enough and you keep rolling dice or you keep shuffling cards, Yeah. For all that hard work, then they got smile and say, there you go. Keep going. And, it's a cracking story. And you've had a same day delay, and you've told me about other lays. So, yeah. As I just said to you before the podcast, now you know it's possible. It's it's it's a subconscious thing that the next time you maybe spot those signals and it's lunchtime or, I had one the other day, like, early in the morning, and I fucked up because it had the same signals as you. But I just started in that city, and I just started my number farm. And it just beginner's error that it was such a good set, but I it was too early. Was 09:30 in a train station in the morning, so I took the number and walked off. As I walked off, I felt like fucking punching myself in the face going, you idiot, Tom. That was on. And I thought to myself, what are the chances this will flake? Because when when daygamers will know if you've done a lot of daygame, if a set's too good, it it it bursts the bubble and it's too much. And I used to know a really good daygamer and an instructor called Sam. And he would do amazingly charged supersets. Bexta calls them supersets when it's just crazy electricity. And watching it or students looking at it go, holy fuck. Like, the sparks are coming off. She's all floppy. He would just hold her hand, go right in. Most of the numbers flaked. You know? He would get a lot of same delays, and he's very good at gutter game. But So if you find these red letter day girls bringing it full circle at thirty minutes on this podcast then, remember the tick list. Remember that story. And I wanna finish just quickly asking you a favor. If you've got a similar story, could you email it to me? And of course it can be anonymous. So even if you send it to me from your normal email, I won't publish your email of course and I can change your name, change the location if you want. But I've put two up recently on my blog and they're much more popular. Is that the correct English? They're more popular than than a standard Torero lay report. Because when when when you write a lay report, they go, yes, the fucking same thing. So boring. But it's nice to hear it from other guys in another parts of the world when guys go, holy shit. This stuff happens all over the world to beginners, intermediate. It's just crazy shit happens. And I'm gonna if I get lots of them on my blog, I'll choose the best 10 or whatever and I'll put them in my new book below the belt. So the stories really have to have some crackle in them. It can't be like a three day slow boyfriend daygame thing. It has to be interestingly like that same day lay story or, you know, maybe she's engaged or she's married or there's something crazy that happened. Don't make it a fisherman's tale. So you don't need to exaggerate that you pull two Victoria's Secret models into a toilet. Nobody cares. Right? We we if you do daygame, you understand these signals. And we're really interested to hear about ovulating girls. And maybe you did do something crazy like my mate, Tom, you know, who was pulling girls into a London park and fucking them by Buckingham Palace. It's wild stuff happens. That's why the book's called Below the Belt because the average guy walking around today has no idea of these signals. And my favorite hobby, as I always say, is walking around and there's couples and the guy is just looking at the squirrels in the tree and the girl just looks at me. And she's holding his hand. And I look at her and she looks at me and I know that you know that I know. And we have, like, two seconds of eye sex. And she goes really red and maybe I shouldn't do it, but the boyfriend's just looking at a fucking squirrel, you know. And girls do that more, by the way, when they're with their boyfriend and their husband. Take from that what you will. That was podcast a 147. Cheers, mister j. I'll maybe see you in London or see you back here. Yep. Thanks for having me on. Cracking story. I hope it motivates you. Send me your stories. Tom@tomtorero.com. Goodbye.