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# Episode 149 Fifty Two Dates With Mr A (Part II)

**Speaker 0:** Tom Torero podcast a 149. Deja vu. I'm back in a place where I used to live, an apartment, I to share with today's podcast guest. It really is deja vu. But he's tidied the place up. There's pictures on the wall. He's rearranged the furniture. It's like going, you know, you go back to your ex's house and she she just she's taken all the mementos away. There's nothing special remaining anymore. It's redecorated. It's respectable now. Yeah. It really is nice. And it's nice to be in the city. I've hit Warsaw as the sun's come out, springs hit. I hit it just at the right time. And yeah, I've been in smaller places with a van because it's easier to park and I wanted to see some new cities. Coming back to Warsaw, very impressive. But it's not about Poland. Today, the podcast is really part two of something that's overdue by what is it? April now. So we're a couple of months overdue. But we promised you with our guest today, mister a, to follow on his mega project. And I think the last podcast was February 2017 recorded on a train. And it was called I think the actual podcast was called 52 Dates. Although the project is called something different. We shall say hello to Mr A in a second, some housekeeping, a free PDF. That's my present to you because usually I do the ten ten challenge and every year I say, go on, get off your computers, speak to 10 girls for ten days and the uptake, gentlemen, is very poor. I've done it for five or six years and two or three guys do it. I started to think, fuck, what should I do? A one one challenge? A two two challenge? So instead, I wrote a PDF a few weeks ago and I got it laid out with some, graphic design. It's like a mini mini mini street hustle and it's called beginner's guide to daygame because it's based on the video on YouTube. So enough about that. If you want it, watch the YouTube video or go on my blog and it's under the tab called start. And really, I never want to talk about the model again. And I mean that to beginner level. Right? I've it's talk about deja vu even on coaching calls. I say, have you seen the video on YouTube called beginner's guide to daygame? Nope. I said, do you know anything about the model? This is often guys that come for training with Craig or I said, do you know anything about the model? No. So have you ever heard of a stack? No. And it's not really it's what well, it's kind of wasting my time but the guy's paying so it's wasting his time. Right? And it's all out there. I don't need to tell you about opening stacking and vibing and what is a hook point and what should you say to get the number. It's all out there. It's been out there for ages but now it's out there for free. Okay. So no more beginners daygame. And the last thing, is my only teaching this year is coming up in a month's time in Russia. In Russia, if Russia still exists in four weeks time. But I got my visa. So even if they stop the visas now, I'm coming in along with two scallywags, Baxter and Mystery. And Mystery's got his visa sorted and Baxter's got his visa sorted and there's students booked. So we are coming, coming hard to Saint Petersburg and then Moscow. The more the merrier because there's three of us plus some other coaches. So if you want a book, the link is below. Today's theme, today's title is divided loyalties. Abraham Lincoln said, A house divided against itself cannot stand. Now we're not going to get political today but we mister A and I were sitting there thinking, what's the overall theme after a year? And it's quite hard to say, to be honest, but we're going to try and hold it together with divided loyalties. At the end of a calendar year, February to February, hello Mr A, first of all, Jean Dubreuil. What's what's the remind people what the project was from February to February and what happened in February 2018.

**Speaker 1:** Yeah. Well, thanks for giving me the chance to sort of crystallize things a year on from where they were when we're on that train, and you kind of railroad me into this project actually. You have to take some part of you you kicked my butt, so I got I got on and and did it actually. Once you release that podcast, you have to do it. And actually, that's such a critical thing in in life, isn't it? It's so once you make yourself accountable in that way, and listen since going on a podcast, we're all the same, aren't we? We all struggle to take action and that's so important for a guide to take action. Yeah. And you kind of need friends and buddies to help you kick up the ass. Accountability. Yeah. But go on public record in a way as well. Put your head against some parapet. Oh. You don't you don't have to do it this way, but that's the way that I did it. So the project so I'm grateful to Tom for keeping me up the butt a year ago, basically. Now I've completed 36 dates of 52 that I aim to complete within the year 2000 and 2018. Now the project, and you can go on to my YouTube channel, I can plug informally now, but I did produce a YouTube channel to be accountable as well as to because I enjoy making videos. And that's covered the fifty two first dates, it covered the project. And in the introduction to that, I do simply state the goal of the project being to find a partner slash to master dating skills. Having got some level of kind of, what sort of aptitude daygame, and, you know, I now wanted to I now realize, oh, hang on. You get to a peak and then you discover there's another mountain peak beyond it. I'd actually need to get good at dating. So that was the reason for the project that even if I didn't find a partner, because that's kind of like in the hands of the universe sort of thing. Mhmm. I would at least come out of it feeling I'd got and mastered some sort of dating

**Speaker 0:** skills. Remind people of your age and the fact that you're not a full time pickup artist because this is a key part of the project if you haven't listened to the first podcast.

**Speaker 1:** Yeah. So I am 50. I was, yeah, for size two. I'm not very good at maths. I was 49 when I began the project. And, I'd started daygaming when I was 46. So it's very late. Read my book too late, mate.

**Speaker 0:** Talk about bloody plug in. This is like those teenagers on YouTube when they say link and buy a merch 10% off. It's about to be released

**Speaker 1:** at a bargain basement. I waited Tom to grab the microphone at a bargain basement price

**Speaker 0:** on Amazon Kindle as well as print versions. This, there'll just be a giant beep for all of that. But Okay. Don't blame me guys if if about the plug in. Did I get you to sign the contract for final edit on this? So Let's come back to But but the in all seriousness. Toonate Too late, mate. Mate. Was okay. But but because that is a separate topic worthy of an announcement.

**Speaker 1:** Okay. But the thing is that the point I was trying to make was that I started late. Yes. At forty six. Yeah. I mean, proper late. With a full time job? With a full time job. And the other part of the component of the project was the fifty two first dates project was that I was gonna do it and hold down a regular job. So it's a regular Joe doing dating women and dating in daygame. Yeah. Not an RSD guy who's taken a year off of his life or sabbatical. Yeah. I run a law firm, and I believe me, and Tom will back me up and mates will back me up, there's no one listening to this who will know that I've actually pretty much had more than a nine to five job in the last

**Speaker 0:** year twenty eighteen months. It's crazy. Yeah. Yeah. In this very place. You you live here and you run your business partly from here. It's mental. With my bitches. With with your bitches. Yeah. The this is a pimp house. But yeah, how you find the time to go out and the weather here is often extreme. So there's a lot of and this and this and this and you don't even have my male model looks. So you can't even rely like I do on looks, you know, good looking guy game. Yeah. I've had Torero. Torero.

**Speaker 1:** Yeah. Just check out the videos. No. It's

**Speaker 0:** always use you as the example of the for the age thing certainly because because there's guys listening to this going, oh, Tom, I'm I'm just turning 41 and it's game over. I'm like, mate, haven't you listened to Alex's channel? You know, fifty two days. He's 50. He's 49. Now he's 50. So And I'm carrying a a couple of pounds as well. Well, yeah. That and you had a you had a hell of a winter with an accident, which meant you weren't that mobile. It's been one thing after another. The project was meant to finish. Am I right? February 2018?

**Speaker 1:** Yeah. Because we started it on Valentine's Day. So it's meant to actually finish on February 2000 and, '18. But as you announced, you've run it two months over. Basically, in the autumn of last year, and I I can't remember now what it was, but I'd actually got quite a lot of leads. So seven is the number that comes to mind. And it just felt like I was getting fish onto the boat, into the cockpit, and then continuing fishing and kicking the fish that are already there over the the side, use a crude analogy. It's a bit crude, isn't it? But No. It's good. Fishing's good. But I I it felt a bit a little bit plus the full time job. It just felt and I was then starting to get not just first dates. I then had the second and third and the fourth dates. This week, I had a date last night with a sort of a seven heaven Polish girl whom I think is really interest really good girl. A date that I ditched tonight because she was mucking around, a Russian girl. Yeah. A date tomorrow. I'm flying to rush tomorrow with a date with a girl on Thursday and a date on Friday. Yeah. These are all are all part of the 36 date project. Yeah. It's just getting a bit crazy going out at the weekends as well and generating more dates. I mean, this has been a busy week, but so that was the decision I took in the autumn of last year was to kind of down tools on getting more first dates and in a way a little bit focus on the dates that I have.

**Speaker 0:** Alright. So, guys are listening. Maybe elephant in the room for some guys thinking, well, he didn't do the 52, did he? He only did the 36. But the clarification on that is it's thirty six first dates. So as you know, if you're a daygamer, you have to follow them up usually with a second or a third or in Russia, you might even have more. So you just do the maths in your head. Plus, you're 50 years old, full time job. So, you know, hats off. Daygamers should be applauding as they listen to this podcast. And don't you go criticizing, I'm getting annoyed with the amount of keyboard pickup artists, you know, the mental masturbators. They often, like I did a video with Charlie. You might remember Charlie from begin beginner day game and he Charlie said how much daygamy was doing and all these armchair guys, you know, the guys in their comfy houses went, oh, about this? He should be doing this. Why doesn't he do this? Like, get off your ass, mate. Just do one approach. Right? So 36 dates. Fantastic. 30 June 70 dates. Yeah. And guys that know you and have lived with you and hang out with you, you know, quality is good. And you can talk about the age bracket and just the general quality. Very very good. Plus a little mini experiment within that, was a was a three dates of Tinder which you can talk about that as well. So do you want to give a I know they can go through every single date on the YouTube channel so you don't need to go into every single day but what's the overview of 36 dates age quality?

**Speaker 1:** Oh yeah, that's a good question isn't it because really quality is more important than just numbers in my in my book so Especially if you're going for the life partner. Yeah? Yeah. No. Quite. So, I mean, of the let's just look at the let's the six that are on the radar and the rail the red radar dish at the moment, if you like. Last night was thirty four. The Russian probably thirty six, thirty seven. But because this is a little bit of a but here, I found that over the last year, and I was mentioning before we commenced this podcast, there was a girl in another in another city. Was quite an old date. I think she's like date, you know, eight or something, six or seven or something, is she I thought she she texted me yesterday to say, oh, it's my birthday tomorrow. I'm 22. And sent me loads of smiley faces and kissy kissy things and stuff stuff like that. Mhmm. She's actually chasing quite hard. And what I've discovered is there are probably smattering of, I would say, half dozen girls who are In their twenties. Are in their and I'm just not talking about one of the big revelations of this project, and perhaps this may yet be a little bit of a conclusion, is some of these girls are properly young. Mhmm. So if you could draw a chart, and I'm getting older Mhmm. But the skills I'm getting are like whatever. But the age is is actually seriously, guys. The this this I'd love to show a little photograph of her, but I don't do that. She's like looks like a proper little hot fit porcelain doll with blonde hair, beautiful little 21 year old. She sent me a photo last week of her in bed,

**Speaker 0:** all this sort of stuff. It's a movie quote. I can't remember who said that. It goes, I love college girls because I get older, they stay the same age. It's remarkable how yeah. 50 years old and that those those girls are on the hook, you know. Yeah.

**Speaker 1:** I mean, it can you can easily get a little bit talking yourself up about this and but but I've just I mean, I've just and and this girl that I've just mentioned, we haven't we haven't had sex, so it's not like. But there was one other girl who came here, we made out. I mean, they've I'm not only seeing that there are girls who are okay with it in inverted commas. I've actually seen there's a sort of a small portion Yeah. Who actually really are looking for me. Yep. They're actually looking for the they're actually looking it's so difficult to believe because you project your own sort of yardstick onto the girl, hot and young. You're not I'm not hot and young, but actually the girl's got a different yardstick, and you don't realize that they're actually judging on a whole different set of criteria. And you know what? They don't want you to send little cheeky, funny little pings and and be the cheeky cocky guy. They're looking for the maturity and they're seriously, they're not not just looking for it. They're looking to have sex with you. Yeah. That's

**Speaker 0:** a good point to say about the the possible self sabotage on these younger ones or the ones that want the crazy fast sex and probably never want to see you again or, you know, do you there's something inside you that we've talked about many times before. It's just an eye a hypothesis. Is there something that goes on when when you think, do I really want this adventure sex? Is she actually too young?

**Speaker 1:** Should I, you know, put the brakes on on purpose? I mean, I think you could get a little bit doctor Freud on this whole debate. But you know what? I mean, I'm a 50 year old guy. I've come from a background that was somewhat traditional. My my father, his latest wife, he didn't sleep with her till they married. Do know I mean? I've I've come from that perhaps, I'm older than quite a little bit more of a different generation from you too, Tom. So I've come from a background that's a little bit traditional. And maybe I'm a bit of a romantic idealist as well or something. You know, I just like like hunting after the really high quality girls, and I don't I throw the other fish back. But but on the but by the same token, I will kind of fess up to the fact that there are two, three, four, five, perhaps as many as five of the 36 who I got into position, in inverted commas.

**Speaker 0:** Quite literally, with the with the gaffer tape and

**Speaker 1:** the handcuffs. So essentially, there were a small handful of girls whom I had in a a very good situation. They were younger, and they were hotter hotter. And I, for whatever reason, sort of didn't follow didn't follow through with them. Can you give some stats? Because it's not all doom and gloom. No. So there were there were three girls whom I had made beautiful, sweet love with. One was 27 year old, Redhead, beautiful girl. One was a really lovely blonde girl, whom I who was absolutely sweet as apple pie, and I let her learn she's in a very long term relationship and is you know? And then the the absolute diamond was the Russian. Mhmm. She's she was the hottest girl I've ever slept with. Yeah. Had to travel to Russia to to sleep with her, and and that was hard work. But it was a second

**Speaker 0:** it was an instant date, it was the second day. Good approach, Torero, you can find that on the channel. It's it's a it's a solid daygame approach to get that lay.

**Speaker 1:** Yeah. Yeah. So She was terrific. And then there probably been half a dozen, probably eight whom have got back to the apartment, and we've we've made out. We've some clothes have come off, but it's not gone all the way. There are also six I would say six Yeah. Five or six of the 36 whom are very because what's happened is a lot has fallen by the wayside, and there were, like, like, five or six now whom I'm like I said this week, who might who who who actually may yet may yet enjoy some

**Speaker 0:** How many were how many were the girls that you turned down after the first date you told me before this that how many dates have you gone on where you didn't wanna see you didn't wanna see a for a second date? So I would say about eight, maybe 10 of the 36.

**Speaker 1:** Three three of them. Well, the problem is when you have lots of dates, like, and you're running a full time, you got you know, it's three dates in a row is quite a lot of quite a lot of energy and investment, particularly if you think that they're not going to that they're gonna string you along for three or four, five, six, seven dates, you might as well go back, start fishing again, and get fresh one. So I and also, you start to get to know girls and you think, no. I'm not really interested in them. They're not really partnership material. Mhmm. There were also really interesting

**Speaker 0:** three Tinder dates in the '36. So 33 dates were from cold approach pickup. Three were a Tinder experiment.

**Speaker 1:** Yeah. Although there was one that was a friend of a cold approach girl, and she came along to a party. Okay. So One was a a social network. Three were Tinder. The rest were cold approach. Can you just summarize quickly the Tinder? Yeah. So there were three girls. There was quite a lot of work getting, surprisingly, in a way, at work getting just one of those out on a date, the first in the date. Yeah. I thought it would be easy. They were all quite a lot older than I had expected. They were all, bless them, good company and fun, but I was not sex not not sexually attracted.

**Speaker 0:** One Quality was well below the daygame. Quality was was quite low.

**Speaker 1:** Yeah. Bless them. Quality was really low. Bless them. We feel sorry for them. Yeah. And and

**Speaker 0:** yeah. Yeah. And you didn't want to see, I I guess, those three again.

**Speaker 1:** Two of them, I didn't wanna see again. The third one, I got her back here. We got her clothes off, but to be honest with you, I felt like I was doing it for what's the word? Get the notch? No. No. Well, get to the notch or

**Speaker 0:** doing my duty. Well, okay. Ten minutes to go and this is we've been what do you say? Going around the edge of this issue. But but all these points that we've just said come back to the central question of you complete the project or you get to where you want to, 36. What was it for? And what was the conclusion of the project? And when you were saying all that stuff, there's loads of guys that would have gone, but I would have just done it for the notch. I would have just done it for the casual sex. And a of the times when you've told me the story, I would have just done it for the notch because I I like notches, I like quick sex and sometimes it's fine. Especially those girls, the younger girls, the horny ones, that's fine. But like we said in that first podcast, you you openly said you you're going for the life partner, you're also going for the day game skill, the dating skill set because your day game is very good. The day game to date ratio is very very good we should say but don't need to talk about that. The big question then, you know, what's your conclusion now? Is it still live partner or is it like, oh, fuck. I should have I should have gone for 10 of those notches?

**Speaker 1:** I mean, answer to kind of question is, having completed the project, having had some potential and, you know, long term relationship girls, having also had the sort of these beautiful younger adventure sex type girls, I'm left with the question of, well actually have I really drunk deep of the PUA cup? Have I really gone through the rite of passage and really sort of like, what's the word, owned my masculine, uninhibited masculine, the wild child in me, the iron John character in me, and really let loose on this area of life. Because one of the things that one of the things I always think is really important, the guy needs to go through this rite rite passage. Yeah. And only once he's been through the rite passage, does he then have the sort of the strength, inner strength, and the detachment to choose to choose well. Yeah. He may choose the the Casanova route. He may choose to to be he may be more of an establishment guy, like you alluded to at the beginning of this podcast with my property. And maybe, you know, but maybe I'm that establishment guy. But even that But the question is, have I has have I been through

**Speaker 0:** really drunk deep from this cut? That's why we called it divided loyalties. Because in a way, you've got a much harder job than a guy that's either decided or rather doesn't know about pickup. So he just got married when he was 21 to the girl from school. Or I have a much easier job because I'm a self proclaimed professed bachelor. I'm not getting married. I don't believe in it. I, you know, I can give you biological, truths on it, but we're not here to argue that point. But in a way, I'm just saying my life is a whole lot easier because I don't walk around every day worrying. Is it a high quality girl? I walk around thinking I'm I'm out. I love sex and women love sex. And so in a way, the married guys got it a lot easier than you and I've got it a lot easier than you. You're what's the English phrase? Stuck between a rock and a hard place. Hard place. Yeah. Sounds slightly homosexual but you know what I mean. You're still, it sounds like you haven't you've completed the project, but there's still not final clarity. We can't I wish there was to this podcast. Yeah. We go, yeah, he's getting married next week. Always become a professional pick pick apart, but there isn't.

**Speaker 1:** Well, you have to part with a 100 Oh, yeah. British pounds because a buddy, a shrewd financial Yeah. Geek bet you that I would be married or at least a long term relationship by now, and and you bet the other way. So It was the other way around. I was confident in your abilities

**Speaker 0:** because I know you and I was there when you started the project. So I said to this our mutual friend, he's gonna by the end of the year, he's going to at least be engaged or living with a girl. And our mutual friend said, no, he's not. He's going to actually probably become a bit more of a player, you know, get addicted to the old adventures sex. He got the money today. He got the money. But So is the conclusion that there is no conclusion?

**Speaker 1:** Well, one conclusion that is that it that I I do believe that it it's a skill and that actually any guy, however old and ugly and fat and debauched, and I think I must be pretty much walking proof of of that, can actually have success with girls of a very young age and attractive girls of a very young age. You know, sometimes I wish I could post all the photos of the girls that I've I've met because guys probably won't believe it. Yeah. So that's the one that is something that I've learned on the dating front, not just because a lot of guys think, well, you know, it's just a gimmick. You're gonna approach on a girl on the street, you get a number. But, actually, there's no other dating, and then actually get once you get into the flat and they're getting clothes off, then you realize it is a skill. Mhmm. You don't you know what I mean? It's not it's not like some trick. But, yeah, I think there is a cliffhanger because I do feel I'd love I'd love because, you know, as guys, we'd love to be certain about things. And Yeah. And I'd love to be certain about it. But I have to say, I think I'm, I'm I'm in a state of uncertainty about it. There are some potential long term partners I'm I'm keeping an open mind about. I do feel I've mastered a few skills, I hope.

**Speaker 0:** Your your dating must have got a hell of a lot sharper because the beginning of the project, your daygame was fine and it was the dating, wasn't it? We used to talk about venues and where do you sit and then I remember doing the verbal escalation and the physical escalation. That must now be down surely. Yeah. I agree. Coming back to the flat.

**Speaker 1:** You you you you do get rusty. So I've I've had a two month layoff, and then you get back into it, but you very quickly get back on the bicycle. Yeah. So, yes. I completely agree with you.

**Speaker 0:** You know what you're doing there. And when the back of the flat, you've got your you've got your Sure. But pulling pulling

**Speaker 1:** or pulling the trigger. Yeah. That

**Speaker 0:** that's still a mystery me. Do that. Still a mystery for me because you know the techniques and that's in the past why we said, okay. It must or it could be something internal because in those situations would I have pulled the trigger, would our mutual friend have pulled the trigger, we don't know. It's it's you know it's not a hard science

**Speaker 1:** you if you could just relive those moments with different pickup artists who are into I almost feel, Thomas, as if if I've gotten back into the bedroom or under the bed, I know that of course, I'm like a really red blooded male. I want to have sex with him. But I'm also I'm not

**Speaker 0:** There's also lead chasing though because I said this to our mutual friend. If a young hot girl's texting me and saying, where are you, Tom? I wanna bang I'll go and bang her. And I know I used to have a full time teaching job but in my head all day it will just be okay, I'm gonna do this and do this but because you're so busy and there's other girls, oftentimes you've just the leads just disappeared in the wind. I I couldn't do that yesterday.

**Speaker 1:** Litigation. I had a deadline. Know. I've got staff here. There are guys There

**Speaker 0:** are guys listening to the podcast who for them sex is way more important than their job. You know? That that is just a fact. But you have different priorities and that is also a fact. Still but I still feel that I haven't yet completed

**Speaker 1:** the right of passage, I guess. Yeah. And I think it's still really important that the guy does in this area of his life get mastery in this area. Yeah. Whatever your end end game is. And whatever your age is and whatever your end game is. Yeah. Yeah.

**Speaker 0:** Because I think we said in the first podcast, if you had got a lucky roll of the dice, let's say date number two was your perfect life partner, we always said that you still need that bulletproof skill set because she won't You can fuck her and date her for a few months Exactly. But you won't you won't You you think you've lost this great fish

**Speaker 1:** because like, date three comes to mind. Brilliant date we made out in the bar just around the corner. Fantastic date. She was the one. Definitely. No. Didn't happen. She went to Portugal with the hotel she worked with, probably met up with a Portuguese waiter. I hadn't fucked at that point. I just had one date. Do know what I mean? Yeah. Maybe I'd have married her, and maybe it would be hell now. You know, the kind of thing. Yeah. Yeah. So this is the point. You've got to really get good at this stuff in order to approach the whole subject from position to strength.

**Speaker 0:** Yeah. Frame is the technical words, you know. If you don't toughen up your frame, you might get a girlfriend, but it will collapse, you know, or your frame will go to jelly. So, going on 36 dates or trying for 52 sorry, thirty six first dates, toughens you up whether you're 21 or 50. So if there are other 50 year old daygamers out there who've done something similar, I'd I'd be bloody impressed and please write to me because where are you? Who are you? Mister A and I seem to know the the crowd of all the daygamers. So I'll be very impressed. If you're out there cold approach and you're 50 and you're getting results like this, please email me or mister A. Right. We're to wrap it up and I promised to talk about the book because we should. It's not just the cheesy plug. I read the book early on. I read my depictions of myself in it where you kind of read through, you know, hoping that nothing too bad is gonna be in there. But no, it was an accurate account of my time with you in London and abroad and traveling and skiing. But anyway, is that that book's called 52 that book's called Too Late Mate and the link shall be below. But that's documenting your time before the 52 date project. Is that right?

**Speaker 1:** And it was paperback, and soon it's gonna be more. Yeah. Thanks for giving me a little plug there, Tom. It it it's a book that's been in print only on Lulu for about 1799, I think. But it's been nearly on the shelves for nearly a year. So I'm now putting it gonna be gonna be putting it on Amazon next couple of weeks. Can I I'm also doing, fifty two first dates? Yeah. He's doing more books. Am I allowed to plug? Yeah. Yeah. And the t shirts and the mugs and hats and the key ring. No. But I no. You these are basically I'm giving them away.

**Speaker 0:** Sign up below.

**Speaker 1:** All 36 dates will be covered in in a 12 part series of Kindle books only on on Amazon

**Speaker 0:** called fifty two first dates. But too late, mate, is just coming back to that is your is the backstory. It's the kind of your version of of the game from

**Speaker 1:** yeah. Very From zero to zero. From zero to zero. From zero to zero. No. It is from it covers Yeah. That really does good. Deal the backdrop. There's a lot of So it's pretty painful. Is a lot of personal Yeah. Insights, which I think guys will will identify with.

**Speaker 0:** Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Way more than if it was just a book of successful labor points as I've come to discover. Yeah. And you're you're not a professional pickup guy, and it's been well received, I believe. It has. It's had some good views so thanks.

**Speaker 1:** Yeah. Thanks for allowing me to plug that book.

**Speaker 0:** That's fine. All the links will be below. We don't need to I won't say the links because there's one for the YouTube and there's one for that book etc but I take my hat off to you even though I lost a £100. Yeah, if I can be 50, I hope I'm going to be live to 50 and I'm dating those kind of girls though those at that age bracket, the looks, those those kind of personalities. I hope my day game is still as sharp as you because we haven't really talked about your day game in this podcast because it's kind of irrelevant because you just generated leads from day game. But the day game is bloody good. So will there be a third part to this podcast with the sound of either wedding bells or mister a as a pimp in some club saying fuck them bitches y'all. Who knows? We just don't know. So I wish we could sit here and give you an answer, dear listeners, but we can't. You haven't got a firm plan for the next year, have you? No. I haven't. But I mean, will will

**Speaker 1:** say for myself and say for anybody else who's listening, who's an older dude, you know, it really is never too late, mate. And I I just think it's really important the guys master this stuff, and it's never too late to do that. And you know what? This kind of rite of passage in inverted commas can be done around your regular job, and it can be very, very satisfying.

**Speaker 0:** Yeah. On many levels, emotionally and physical. And please now stop writing to me if you're 35 or you're I've had guys writing to me, they're 31. They go, am I too old for pickup or you're 40 my god. 42? Come on, man. Oh my god. Yeah. So enough. Right? The beginner daygame thing is sorted and hopefully this age thing is sorted. I'll never be able to convince everybody. It's like the looks thing. You can't convince. But, put it to bed. Okay? If you're 60, if you're 70 and you're still out there on the streets dating, I would love to hear from you. Okay? And we're not talking about provider game or just, pay in or sugar daddy stuff. If you're out there cold approaching and you're over 50, I would love to hear from you. I'm sure mister a would love to hear from you. Where are you? What city are you in? How are your results? And why are you doing this? Are you doing it to get married or are you reliving your youth? These are all big questions. Alright. That was podcast a 149 from Poland. In Poland, we say,

**Speaker 1:** Dovirginia. Dovirginia.