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# Episode 69 Bang Bus Adventures

**Speaker 0:** Tom Torero podcast 69 on the road driving through Canada in a van with a guy called Craig who's sitting next to me Craig Cassidy sipping a bottle of wine we are driving from Banff to Kamloops today we've been into the wild and we're heading back to civilization. Now this is podcast 69 and I know what you're thinking. You're thinking, Tom, why are you in a pink van? Maybe you've seen that on YouTube or you will be seeing our adventures on YouTube. Why are you in a van with a bloke and why is he drinking a bottle of wine? And are you sleeping in the van together? What the fuck is this? And this is podcast 69. It all sounds dodgy to me. Maybe you're thinking of broke back mountain. You dirty fuckers. With your dirty minds, as I always say to girls, I'm responsible for my words. You are responsible for how you interpret them in your dirty thoughts. But sitting next to me is Craig Cassidy who I met in Sydney he was a very active Sydney daygamer but he's a British bloke. Good evening Craig do want to introduce yourself, your background, your daygame background, your gay game background, whatever.

**Speaker 1:** How's it going guys? So yeah I'm Craig Cassidy and I've been doing daygame now for almost four years on and off. And I met this despicable gentleman next to me. Back in 2012. So yeah, four years ago in London. I did some training with him. Then again, we met last was it last year? Yeah. Last year in Australia where we got wet and wild in the Blue Mountains.

**Speaker 0:** In a hostel? In a hostel. It's getting worse. Yeah.

**Speaker 1:** It's getting worse. Yeah. I've been doing daygame on and off for four years now. More recently, I have been coaching as well. So yeah. And we are driving across this stunning landscape. I am sipping a bottle of wine, but I'll, I'll tell you about that later on. Can you explain the sleep in arrangements? Yeah. So we're we're slumming it guys. You'll see on the video we we are no expense spared. We are sleeping in a van and taking in turns sleeping in a tent. Yeah. It's it's good.

**Speaker 0:** Right. So you have before Canada, I sent you off to do a residential. You've been teaching a residential in The Baltics as well as some London bits and bobs oh and you filmed you'll have seen Craig on camera not on you porn but on YouTube on the street hustle documentary Craig is an instructor and he was a cameraman so if you're still asking me about the basics of daygame started, what is the London daygame model, go to YouTube and check out that half an hour documentary. But anyway, that was you before Canada. What were your dirty lay reports? You got two lays in what five days, something like that in The Baltics.

**Speaker 1:** Yeah. So was it two weeks ago now? I was teaching residential in The Baltics. I was there for a week. My student was there for five days. So before he arrived, I did some daygame. And then on the first full day, I met a cute Latvian girl and met her later in the evening, went for a few drinks and I managed to get her back to my I was staying in a hostel on the first first night. So I managed to get her back to the private room. In the hostel, I got a lap dance, but I didn't get the lay. Lots of LMR, but I did see her again later in the week. But during the residential, I demoed on a rather hot Israeli Yes Girl. So the story of these these two lays shows you the extremes of daygame. So the Israeli girl, it was a demo, but she IOI'd me pretty strongly. And the students saw this. She was just blown away by my vibe. I took the number, carried on with my coaching for the day. Met her later in the evening where we had literally one drink straight back to mine to smoke cigarettes on the balcony. Yeah. Pretty straightforward. No LMR, not like the first night. A wild night with an Israeli. Then coaching took up most of my week and after the student left, I managed to get the Latvian girl from the first night back. I had to send a royal flush mess message. So if you don't know what that is, I think, Tom, you've done videos on. The royal flush. Yeah. Sometimes you need to, be willing to walk away to lose the set, to lose the girl. So I basically laid it out. You either meet me tonight, it's my last night here, or it's cool. I'll, I'll go off and do my own thing. She agreed to meet after playing silly buggers for a little bit, and I was actually really tired from the week. So on the date, I was I did nothing. I pretty much said nothing. There was a lot of tension. I bounced her back. And, yeah, as soon as she came into my room, I sealed the deal and she loved it. She loved it.

**Speaker 0:** She loved it. She loved it. Was loving the deal. Well, that's bloody good. Two ladies in a week. This plus, you know, you weren't even there to do daygame yourself really as you were coaching. So bloody marvelous. Then you were in London, and then I met mister Cassidy, the outlaw himself in Heathrow Airport. Was it Heathrow or Gatwick? Gatwick. Heathrow and we flew to Canada and we picked up this van in Vancouver and as you'll see from the YouTube videos, yeah it's been it's been wild to drive him around. The idea now we should have this disclaimer right the idea of this trip when I messaged Craig I said yeah we'll teach a boot camp or teach do some training in Vancouver, but Craig is a cameraman, a photographer. I like all that stuff. So we said, we'll go into the wilds, know, with a van, with a tent. We'll see glaciers and bears and lakes and no women. We said absolutely no women. This is a trip like a monastic trip, know, cleaning the mind. Just downtime in a game, getting in touch with your core self within well, not we didn't even fucking make it off the plane. Once again, mister Cassidy and I Cassidy had a few wines, had a few beers because they were complimentary. It was a long flight and we were just ready to go. There were air hostesses, there was obviously girls giving us cheeky IOIs on the plane with their families, it was a bit frustrating but that was driving us on as soon as we got to Vancouver flirting outrageously with a girl who hired us the van and then on the road and we just couldn't wait to get to any kind of civilization. The first night we ended up we just had to crash in a kind of a farm place so nothing happened then. That was actually that was our cleanest night really. The second night we ended up in a place called Revelstone. Is that right? Revelstoke. Revelstoke and we call it Revelstroke because we went out, wasn't much going on. Some of the locals have described these amazingly busy active bars. We turned up and sorry there's a there's a guy who doesn't know how to drive. Let's overtake on the inside lane. Yeah we turned up in Revelstoke. Do you want to describe the first bit of the night mister Cusserly?

**Speaker 1:** From what I remember, we arrived in Pouring Rain. Yeah. Pouring Rain in the middle of nowhere in some random was it campsite? Yep. And we got told it was full by this sweet old lady. And then mister Tom worked his charm. Not like that. And yeah, we ended up pitching up in this weird weird campsite full of Drunk. Drunk baseball. Is it baseball fans, wasn't it? Something like that. There was some baseball tournament going on or something like that. Pissing down with rain. Mosquitoes. Mosquitoes. Mosquitoes. I was in the tent this night. I just did not want to be there. But we set up camp and then we went out, didn't we? Hit the hit the bar, hit the revel stroke nightlife. Couple of crappy bars. Couple of crappy bars. Then it picked up a little bit and mister Tom has a story from said bar.

**Speaker 0:** We found the only bar it was a bit like a school disco but this bar was you could say for Revelstoke, Revelstroke, this was quite jump in because of this baseball tournament that weekend or wherever wherever it was whenever it was and slowly the girls were coming in and we thought okay let the games begin we were chatting to some girls getting in the mood I saw Craig getting on very nicely hang on let me think where I'm going straight ahead Craig straight on cameloop yeah yeah Craig was doing well with some girls so I went outside to get some cash and then when I came back to the bar outside the bar there was this cute local lass smoking. Now I don't normally smoke but it's bloody good if you're a night gamer or you do a lot of bar game it's a great excuse to strike up a conversation so I struck up a conversation. I was joking about smoking cigars so she had run out of cigarettes anyway. So I said okay, well we'll walk to seven eleven which was five minutes away. We walked to seven eleven, there was a long queue in there so I was spiking things up with her and the people around us and the cashier and it was all good and I could see that she was very keen very interested and luckily I remembered that there was this game of baseball going on somewhere nearby in some kind of outdoor stadium. I said oh show me this stadium it sounds it sounds interesting and we found this dark creepy abandoned barbecue spot and that's where we sat and it was dark very dark and I worked my charm and she ended up sitting on my lap so as I told Craig I got about five strokes in and then she said let's go back and rejoin her friends who I've now discovered was her boyfriend back in the in the in the bar. She went back, I went home and then the next I went back to the van and then the next morning Cassidy knocked on the door looking bright as a button. I was expecting the tent to be like collapsed it was heavy rain but no there he was fully clothed. You basically hadn't really slept that much did you and I think he was still a little bit intoxicated. But there we go that was Revel Stoke and then we moved on to Banff and Jasper Jasper and all that and our next story is really happened in Banff where we actually did a few outdoor sets, did a bit of daygame mister Cassidy do you wanna do you wanna say about your daygame in Banff?

**Speaker 1:** Yeah so Banff, it's not London, there's no Oxford Street, there's no endless supply of girls so yeah, we we worked with what we could find. I think my first approach was a yeah. She was an average Slovakian. Nice long legs. She had the gap, which is always a good sign. But she she said she had a boyfriend. She was Local town for local people. Yeah. Local town for local people. First girl was Slovakian. Didn't go anywhere. And then I met an English girl. She was a Geordie. Good like Geordie Shore. She was racing across the road actually, so I had to do a pretty strong front stop. But she stopped. She was a party girl. She was on her way home. She'd been out all night. So I took her I didn't have data, so I had to take Facebook's, which was annoying but it goes to show that it doesn't matter what really what details you get you just want to get some kind of information so you can continue the interaction later. So I closed her and then Tom you met you met a girl I think. I am. Segway this in. Because

**Speaker 0:** that you met that English girl one night and the date was the night after wasn't it? Yeah. But on the on was it when was the was that the first time when I met the Saudi girl was that the same day you met the English girl to take her details? Yeah because then I stayed out. Right yeah so we'd gone out like it almost got a game kind of evening and you got that English girl and we did a few more sets and then god just rolled me a dice or you could say Allah rolled me a dice that would be more appropriate for this set but ultimately Allah cocked blocked me yesterday which was another good topic to talk about but anyway strolling down past McDonald's if you know Banff was a very dreamy girl, very scantily dressed obviously in her own little world and I said to Craig shotgun which is the rule if you're with your mate and you're a cunt like me. Shotgun just means I saw her first and if you say shotgun you have to approach her even if it turns out to be a man. But luckily she was this dreamy girl from Saudi Arabia. It can't get much more strict and her father and her brother live in Saudi and her mother basically escaped with her and her sister to Ottawa and now her sister was working for the summer in Banff and she had come to visit and this was her first taste of freedom. She could wear what she wanted to wear, she could stay out the night before she just had her first taste of alcohol. And long story short, the set was was pretty straightforward. I've daygay Muslim girls before. I just felt right this is not a super yes girl but this is definitely same day lay territory so I bounced it to a bar, we were drinking alcohol, bounced her to a second bar and then I should say this Craig and I because we had been in the wild we had parked our camper van next to a hostel so we were using the hostel showers and one of us was staying in a hostel bed and the other one was staying in the van and that night it was my turn to stay in the van. The van was just outside the hostel. So this Muslim girl, very strict Muslim girl right, I had to bounce her a long walk down the road to the hostel and persuade her to get in a van and I couldn't find where the lights were so we got in a van and we listened to some YouTube luckily there was wireless but eventually I had to say look shut the door because we're making a noise you know so we got in the van and we were kissing and rolling around and touching and she was getting turned on but there was just it was just way too much. She was like this is way way way way too fast. So long story short I didn't see her the next day I don't think I saw her last night. Round two got all the way back to to a bed. We'd got this like this room for that very reason and huge LMR got naked, got a hand job, tried to do other things, but she said, look, if if my father or my brother find out that I I am not a virgin, you know, if my future husband finds out I'm not a virgin, I will literally be killed. She said it's too dangerous. And I said, well, can stick it somewhere else. And she I tried and she was like no no no no no. So anyway that was my Saudi Arabian story from Banff and while all this was going on I was battling two three hours of LMR in this room. Another battle was taking place in the streets and alleys and vans of a Banff.

**Speaker 1:** Yeah. So before Tom went off to meet this girl, we were having a drink in was it some English pub? In English pub. In English pub. I had a date planned for half eight, I think. Yours was at eight. Right? Yep. But while we were sat there, lo and behold there was a lonely American tourist, Yad from Georgia, who opened us actually. Yeah. She was cute. She was nice. Yeah. Tom and I laid it on thick and fast and hard. Yeah. Fast and furious. Fast and furious, which she loved. And then Tom had to go, so I did the honorable thing and I decided to go for an upgrade. Because my date ironically had English girl? Yeah. The English girl that I approached a couple of days before, she'd not got back to me, so I thought she was a no show. So it kinda worked in my favor. I thought fuck it. I'll I'll take this American for a drink. So I bounced her to a bar and it turns out this bar is where Tom was having his day. And we were literally sat what four there's only a couple of seats free and we were next to each other so it was a bit of a weird vibe. And this American girl's yeah. It just wasn't on. I couldn't the fizziness from earlier had gone. I couldn't take it any further than I did. But luckily my English girl reappeared and so I ditched the American girl and I went to meet the English girl. Went back to the bar that Tom and I were in previously and started my usual patter. Date was going really well. Escalated pretty fast. She was telling me all her dirty secrets. I was telling her a few of mine, and I thought it was on. I thought, yes, tonight's the night, because it was my night in the van that we were gonna christen it. But unfortunately, it was her birthday and she was adamant that she wanted to see a friend in a a bar on the way. She said one drink, I couldn't. I said no the first time and then she was she was persistent so I thought, oh, fuck it. I have to go with her to this bar. So we went to this bar, in there for one drink and I'm trying to get her out. I mean, we've make we're making out by now, and I'm sensing it's on. It's time to go. And then as it turns out, her friend is a massive cock block, which is why I don't really like doing night game. Her friend starts crying and she she won't come. We're outside and I'm literally like, I've gotta get this girl back. Mean, it's on. Like, I'm losing my window. She's like, no. No. No. I've gotta look after my friend. I'll take her home and then I'll come and meet you. She checked on Google Maps, saw where we were staying. By this point, I think I phoned you up, didn't I, Tom? Yeah. Was like, fuck. Like, I'm losing this. Yeah. And so I went back to the van. She said she was gonna come and meet me in half an hour, but half an hour never came. So I slept in the van alone like a chode with my quarter drunk bottle of wine, which I'm now finishing. So, yeah, it's a it was a it was a lit blue balls, a logistical fuck up, but you know, you gotta roll the dice. You gotta be in it to win it.

**Speaker 0:** That's it, man. So we rolled out of town and we are rolling into Kamloops by the time this podcast goes out. Maybe some dirty stuff would have happened. Maybe God would have rolled us two Swedish sisters. We've still got Kamloops to come then we got Vancouver for a few nights so we're gonna try and do some infields there but we just get too carried away either with going off and filming stuff or chasing down dirty holes but anyway for the last few minutes mister Cassidy which was originally gonna be the theme of this podcast, but we had to tell you those funny stories from the van as we're driving right now. But, Cassidy, you've had you've had all sorts of jobs, and in Australia, you're doing all sorts of jobs to survive. So you have kind of unplugged for a while because you're a big traveler, and you've been traveling around Australia and you've done Europe but right now you're considering daygame to become your thing certainly unplugging full time to become your thing, traveling to become your thing and this the first real experiment isn't it? Canada and The Baltics and London one on ones through with me. So what is the bloody plan? Wow, look at that view on the right. Me. It's like a big Scottish loch. Alright, Cassidy, go for it.

**Speaker 1:** Yeah. So my background is your typical blue pill background. I worked in insurance fraud and auditing for about four years prior to going to Australia. And yeah, I I've always felt like, yeah, it just wasn't the life for me. Sitting in an office day in day out, doing meetings for the sake of meetings and spreadsheets and filing and bosses and I always felt I needed to escape and funnily enough actually I was in a relationship prior to going to Australia and she dumped me and I lost my job on the same day, which now I consider to be the best day of my life because that give me my first bit of freedom. Like, I was temporarily out the matrix. I left the country. I went up to Oz, which was always my dream trip. I had a lot of fun in Oz. Did the backpacking route. Did some weird jobs like humping, banana humping. No, not like that. Did the East Coast, had a lot of fun down there, a lot of lays, but I wouldn't say they were typically daygame lays, but you know, when out Ecosystem. Ecosystem. Yeah. Ecosystem lays. Then yeah. Then I met Tom, yeah, last year and you got in touch about doing some filming primarily because I did photography. I'm a photographer as well. And, yeah, you asked if I wanted to do some one on ones Yep. In London London and then a resi in The Baltics. And yeah, I've been doing day game for four years, so I know the structure. I followed Tom for many years, so I know outside my house Yeah. I mean, we live not far from each other in England, so he doesn't know this. And I bought my big zoom lens for that reason, to take pictures of you. It's normal. It's normal. Don't worry. Yeah. Yeah. I I thought fuck it, I will do some coaching. I'll I was help I was doing coaching in Sydney actually, a little bit. But yeah, when Tom said would you like to do some, I thought it was kinda like that moment where I daygame could become my reality full time. And yeah, the one on ones I've done so far have been great. The residential was was awesome. The student did really, really well. And then this trip as well, it's going well so far.

**Speaker 0:** Vegas and LA probably, Yeah.

**Speaker 1:** Maybe US US. Road trip later on this year maybe. Yeah, I've unplugged a bit now and I don't think I could ever return to that lifestyle but day games is weird skill that I have that I can teach and yes, it's going well.

**Speaker 0:** So there we are. I think we're coming up to half an hour or so and like I said this trip perhaps this podcast was going to be something else but like all good road trips it just goes in its own direction and yeah we've done a lot of awesome photography. Craig flies his drone as well as we've got amazing ridiculously good drone footage and we filmed bears and it was spectacular but we also just hit the day game really without thinking about it without planning to do it and good stuff happening and that's how it should be when you've done that game for a long time. It should just be nice and fluid and what happens happens. And you follow your horniness but not like that, not between us in a van. But we expel that energy on the streets so who knows what's gonna happen tonight. A nice smooth upsell through Cassidy's story is that I'm number one, bit of a lazy bastard now having been at the cold face of teaching for a long time. And number two, genuinely, I'm pretty much sold out for this year and I'm not in London. A lot of guys assume that I live in London still but I don't. I live in Central Europe or I ride around in a van or whatever. So if you want UK coaching, probably that's gonna be London, but it could be Cardiff or Bristol or Manchester or Liverpool or even up to Glasgow, whatever. Then Craig is your man also. I've got another mate of mine at wing that I've talked to you about. I'll be introducing him, I think, next week or the week after Daniel. He's in Britain as well. But these are top level daygimmers with the skill they can teach you. It can be a resi if you're keen on doing a five day euro residential where you live with Craig or Daniel, then just get in touch with me. I can talk to you about it. I can verify these guys for these guys. I'm not sure of the I'm not sure what I'm saying. I'm trying to drive it, but it's Tom at Tom