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# Episode 73 How To Get Laid In A Park

**Speaker 0:** Tom Torero podcast 73. I do believe we are at, it's been a manic day. I've just got off a train from Cardiff. I am now in Paddington. And I met, a young gentleman. This sounds very dodgy, but I will explain what happened. I met a young gentleman called Tom, age 23. What a fine name. Two Tom's standing in the middle of Paddington. And very quickly, I bounced him all of five minutes to a sunny park. We are still in Paddington. We're reclining on the grass, bamboozling Tom, getting him in a bubble, and then going, come on, Tom. Let's do a podcast. And Tom's like, okay. But nothing physical has happened. Nothing sexual has happened. But why am I with a guy called Tom? Well, I spoke to Tom on Skype a few weeks ago. And his story, I was gonna say blew me away, but no more sexual innuendos. His story was impressive. A, for like the amount of action he was doing because of his age. B, his backstory, involving music and other kinds of hustles. And then c, he started telling me about these lays. And only the other day he sent me another kind of lay report. And I was like, Jesus Christ. Park lay reports, pulling girls in London parks. I've got to meet this guy before I fly off in half an hour, and get this on record because it's about not having logistics. It's about hustling in other ways. It's a progress report if you're in your early twenties and you want to know how fast you can learn daygame, and a whole other collection of wonders. So hello, Tom. Hello, Tom. This is like inception. Wonderful. I like the way we are sitting in a sunny park. Yep. I'm not sure whether you've bounced me or I've bounced you here. We don't know what's happening. It has all the hallmarks of a same day lay, but please don't come any closer. Okay. First of all, guys are going alright well who's this Tom bloke? So can you give us a bit of background on you and the other hustles and then obviously the daygame? Okay. Hello everyone, my name is Tom.

**Speaker 1:** So I'm 23. I come from a very small town and have lived there and moved around the world quite a bit. I change location about every three or four months. That's living in South America I've been to and I've lived in my small town and moved to London with no money at one point. From the ages of you know from very early age I've always been a quote unquote black sheep even in my prom days when I think everyone was wearing suits and I had my leather jacket on and leather trousers.

**Speaker 0:** Tom's got a good look I should say it's the rock and roll under look. Yeah. You strike me already as a musician and surprise surprise, you are a musician. Yes. I'm a guitarist and I've been playing guitar for twelve years. And then I hear the audience going, oh, well, I I know why he gets laid because he's in a band, isn't it? Yeah. He's in a band. That's how he gets laid. Now, a part of that hustle is true. But can you explain Yeah. That backstory as opposed to getting girls from that hustle as opposed to what you're doing now? Yeah. Actually it's

**Speaker 1:** it is true you can get girls that way, but the problem with that, doing girls like just gigs is you don't get variety of selection first of all most of the girls that come to my gigs anyway are over 25 over 30 and to get a hot girl who's

**Speaker 0:** you know at a gig is quite rare and there's nothing wrong with fame game like I said to on Skype. Yeah. That's bloody marvelous. Like, who wouldn't be Robbie Williams? Who wouldn't be Mick Jagger for a week, you know? And all fair play to you. Get as many as you can from that hustle. But you're not and you have, haven't you? You told me some stories about girls at your gig, IOI ing free yeah, but my my hustle when I'm in my band

**Speaker 1:** is I we usually headline our band or play just before the headliners and I usually scan for IOIs when I'm playing wink at girls and they can't see who's interested who's watching who's on their phone and then literally approach the girl that I think's interested afterwards and just say hello

**Speaker 0:** thank you for watching. Yeah. The stuff's already been done. Attraction, preselection, jealousy, all the classic So stuff has been

**Speaker 1:** And then she just bomb bombards you with loads of questions like, oh my god, I love your band, or I love your hair, my classic compliment is loads of questions and then you just basically find out logistics and escalate they're very fast aren't they? You've said let's go back let's have an after party. I've had two so I've had one which was in a car outside the venue. Going to in a car. That's her car. There you go. For guys saying they don't have logistics by the way. Yeah. In a car. In her car. Good. Yeah. Because she lived too far away and I said, oh, how did you get here? And she said she drove so I just went, okay. And then I I think I introduced one of my friends to one of her friends. She was with another girl. Get rid of the obstacle. Yep. And then I I literally just said let's go outside for some fresh air and then I said oh let me let me see your car. I remember it now. I said let me see your car because I love looking at seats. I'm so interested. I I said something about the seats like, I I wanna see what year they're in maiden.

**Speaker 0:** It's that there's a human psychological thing, isn't there? That way, when you use the word because I do that a lot. Yes. Even The human brain just accepts it and you can say ridiculous things like we are gonna talk about with park hustling. Yes. So that's your rock and roll hustle and it works, but you're not relying on that. And you haven't been just relying on that for how many years? When when was when was the game daygame thing? Well,

**Speaker 1:** so I would think I broke up my girlfriend okay so I started getting into daygame about two years ago and I would say about nine months of that was just reading books and watching videos and I was living in my small town I had all those excuses like oh you know I live in a small town I can't do it. Were you living with your folks then? I was living with my band actually. Right. And then I moved to London and I actually had a really I had a guitar business back in my small town. That was going quite well. I had about 20 students but I couldn't focus on it because of the girls I was just focusing on watching videos all day and I thought well instead of watching these I need to just move to London get that kind of thing out of the way yeah so I did I just moved to London. I think I decided about two weeks before I went. I moved it posted a picture on Instagram went right it's official now.

**Speaker 0:** I like that speed of implementation.

**Speaker 1:** Fuck it. Do it. Yep. And then I I moved with about £200 struggled a lot when I got there I had a job in a pub got fired after two weeks because I turned up at a gig instead which we got paid a £100 for What else I do? Then I went to a coffee shop and I I stayed there for about three weeks but then I had four days where I didn't turn up in a row because I was with a French girl. I met a French girl at a club and bounced her back and I was just too tired the next morning. I was late and then I was like, oh, I'm not gonna turn up now. You naughty boy. Rock and roll. Now, did you have a period of immersion where you're the classic daygame,

**Speaker 0:** in a bit of hell where you've got the anxiety then you immerse yourself and you get the

**Speaker 1:** learning down? Yes. Actually, that's funny because after the coffee shop job, I was cold approaching but I was only doing it with winds at the time and I think I was just a bit lucky because I can play a bit of the good looking guy game I guess because I used to you know approach maybe 10 or 15 and get maybe seven numbers, eight numbers and quite a lot of dates but not too many lanes actually because back then I was doing daygaming boyfriend mode. That's before I read street hustle.

**Speaker 0:** Good plug. Nice. I'll slip you a tenor. Fantastic. But okay. So guys are thinking then, well, okay, he has the rock thing and he has the looks thing. I'd say you fit into a niche. As in in girls immediately, yeah, they're putting you into that type. But interesting to counter that argument, you're saying you went on a lot of dates, which daygimmers do, students do, they go on a lot of dates, and you say, oh, well, what's the lay ratio? And it's something like crazy small for a lot of Every 10. Something like that. 10. Exactly. When, you know, at the peak of a man's game, it could be one in two. So then you can easily diagnose, fuck, something's going wrong either on the date or it's how I'm presenting myself. And as we said on Skype, you've got the rock and roll look they know you in a band and then you're coming out with kind of boyfriend material perhaps in the past the girls going what the fuck and

**Speaker 1:** before like the time period we're talking about last year I didn't have a leather jacket I didn't have boots I I wore shoes and I wore kind of a like a tweedy jacket yeah

**Speaker 0:** so it gave off a way more boyfriend vibe interesting guy boyfriend material yes sweet guy british guy. Oh, he's nice. Introduce him to my mom. Four dates, five dates, you know, etcetera. Okay. And then you come across more day game material which is more Yeah. Ruthless, which is more fast escalation?

**Speaker 1:** Yeah so during that time period I was doing you know quote unquote natural game so I was reading a lot of books about it and watching a lot of videos about it and I thought okay let's try it but I tried it and it is I was relying on I would say luck in a way because I was approaching and if the girl didn't hook after the opener that's it she's gone so I relied on approach, hey, I think you look very nice. And then if she hooked and we just built rapport, took her number and invited her down. And it does work. It does work as a filtration

**Speaker 0:** method. If that's all you've got, I say to students, you'll still be better than the average guy, but you need to approach in volume. Yes. And you never know when your next meal will come or where it will come from. You know what I mean? Yes. It's that horrible feeling like I'm walking around again, I hope a girl likes me today. And occasionally they really do. Yeah. You can get real deep connections, deep rapport, girlfriends out of this method and guys do. So natural game, that's the disclaimer.

**Speaker 1:** It does work but you're obviously there horny thinking, I wanna smash more birds exactly and so a few months after that I moved back to my small town by the way when I was in London the last job I got was a fundraiser and I was doing that for four months well that is important because skill. Yeah and I've done loads of approaches maybe about 100 a day signed up for four or five people a day. Which is very high for London. Yes. We was our target was one or two. But you said all these happened to be young pretty girls? Yeah, well the regional manager came to me at one one day and I think I had been working in for about two months and he said Tom, you know what we really like you right you're getting very good results you're getting very good stats but you get a lot of cancellations and 90% of people you sign up are girls and so he was like I think they're signing up because of you and not for the charity so he talked me through filtration processes to yeah you know make sure they actually sign up for the charity.

**Speaker 0:** But what a great skill set, you know. I I have recommended guys try it if they're super shy Mhmm. Because of verbal bamboozling It's very general confidence, cockiness.

**Speaker 1:** And it's very easy to get a job as a fundraiser because they don't really look at your CV. They just invite you to an interview, go to interview, and they really trial you in the first two days. And that's when they're gonna fire you or not. Yeah. And high turnover. That's that's it. So it's a very good thing to if you got high approach anxiety I would definitely go for that but after that I went back to my small town that was during Christmas period done some hibernation didn't go on a single date for about two to three months until February and I was really focusing on what do I want to do in my life how am I going to earn money because I really want to travel I keep moving job to job place to place I need to get some kind of thing sorted with my income and so I thought well I've got a guitar, I've got a skill set, I watch FLOMAD and was definitely considering that and so this year has been really just looking at how to move forward with in terms of income how to I started focusing on my health and in the last three months I got a job because I ran out of money so I actually got a job at a supermarket and already I want to quit but it's good because I've got a steady income coming and now I'm focusing on my career which is guitar playing I'm focusing on girls so street hustling and health and fitness so at the moment I'm doing boxing for fitness and that's got on my shoulders in quite good shape over the last three months before this I was quite skinny and it also made me feel more masculine as to approach the more feminine type of girls because I used to have quite high AA with like feminine women so I used to

**Speaker 0:** weasel out them and be like, oh, I don't know what weasels are saying, but she's too hot probably or Well, this is great that you're at 23 without again sounding patronizing, at 23 you're hitting all the areas that should be hitting for sexual market value as a man. And you've spoken about getting more freedom, doing more travel. And I think I said to you on Skype, it's clear that your character is this person. It's established when you're young. If you've had restless feet and you're a nomad and you've resisted the norm. As a teenager, that's you. And no matter how hard you try to have a steady job and now you've seen truths in game and recently you've seen some quite remarkable truths in game about how what women do, you can't unsee it. So you can't unsee the job thing, you can't unsee the women thing, you won't be able to unsee the travel thing. That's a blessing and a curse, can tell you, because you just can't stop. And I hope, you know, as you said, the fitness thing carries on. Hopefully, you can't unsee that too. I I need to see it. Okay. But we're halfway through the podcast. Exactly halfway through. Yes, I think so. And, let's get specific because a very common question I get via email is I don't have logistics because I'm too young or I live with my folks or I have an awkward house situation tied on to that is I don't have enough money. Guys say well I don't have the money so I can't do the dating because I can't afford cocktails and venues. They say I find it difficult to ask to go back to hers or she says I can't go back to hers. The biggest one is I don't live in a big city. Yeah. That's a classic excuse. I don't live in New York or London. So what's the point of starting dating? And you, a bit like me old mate, Sam Jango, you've proven these weasels to be wrong because in the last three weeks Yeah. In the last three weeks. Month ish, you've had month. You've had which is which is great. You've had three lays. Taking a number and then arranging a date. And then you haven't gone to a hotel, you haven't even used a car. You've slept with three girls in the same park, which is Saint James' Park in London. God bless Saint James. So guys obviously going well let's hear these bloody stories inspirational.

**Speaker 1:** Okay, so yeah about a month ago I really decided okay I'm gonna probably be in my small town for a little bit I need focus on my guitar but I also need girls to focus on guitar because if I just try and focus on guitar without dating I get distracted very quickly and if I go and focus on girls without playing guitar it's the same thing so I need both of them. So I thought right once a week I'm gonna go to London I'm gonna make that commitment and do 20 approaches and so I done it I'd admit the first week I only done four in four hours doing this solo? Yes And then I'm yeah, I I done that one solo. And then some of the other ones I do about 10 approaches, 15 approaches, then I meet up for a win and maybe do five or 10 more. So that first week I done only four but I did feel quite bad coming home but then I said right next week I'm 100% gonna do those 20 and so I did and the next week I done 20 approaches only got about three numbers or four numbers I got really frustrated with my eighteenth approach which was a beautiful blonde girl but a guy came into the set right at the end when I thought it was done and I was off guard so it made everything a bit awkward. But then I was kind of annoyed so I was walking with my wind and my wind just said I'll just do one or two more and a Korean girl walked past and I ran around approached her. It wasn't quite ice sparkle but I With Asians, it's Yeah. You're not gonna get much. I've done a bit of, you know, a bit of the stacking, said how dreamy she looked, said that she looked like a Buddha, meditating while listening to music and I love girls who are so relaxed because in London everyone's so busy rushing around.

**Speaker 0:** That's a great universal stack write it down you fuckers this is all free don't write to me.

**Speaker 1:** Yep and so she liked that. She said, oh, I'm so happy. Thank you. We got to a bit of vibing and what did we do? She says she's from Korea and I had a lot of friends from Korea. So I know quite a lot about the country. So I started saying, okay so you know do you cook kimchi and she's like not really I was like well you're not proper Korean if you don't cook kimchi. Very good. You know using kind of like her country and she's like oh well what do we do? I built some rapport and then. Was she a lang was she here on a summer thing? She was here for one week. She came on a Wednesday, I think, and went back on a Wednesday. And she was just here for a holiday. She saved up about three months. Alone? Yes. Bingo. Yep. And what was I going to tell you was Where did you go? What did you do after that? Okay. So I At first, was quite skeptical. I want to speak about that. She's quite skeptical. She thought I was was maybe a pick pocket or something she even wrote on her Google translate are you pick pocket or I was just like nope I'm attracted to you that's why I approached you reinsured that I am attracted to her nice yep and then anyway I took her Instagram, believe it or not, because she couldn't find herself on Facebook and she didn't have an English number and I didn't have the app that Koreans use which is Kakao Talk. Okay. So I took her Instagram, messaged her on Instagram. We already arranged to meet up on the Monday. So we arranged to meet up Monday. I told her the location. She said okay. I said basically where we met because that's easy for her. And we met a big Ben

**Speaker 0:** and then Big Ben, the phallic object. Yeah.

**Speaker 1:** This is I'll tell you the the date. What we done is I took her straight to the first venue which was a pub near Trafalgar Square. I went about half an hour before to see if it's empty and stuff. Good. Half an hour before on the way there. Yeah, she was quite nervous but I was just talking a lot and I find especially these last three girls I do about 70 of the talking because they're actually quite shy yeah and so it's hard to read if they're attracted to you or not but I got in the first thing you've done some spiking done some rapport building as well and tried kissing her but nope

**Speaker 0:** she wouldn't have that one Asian kissing in public yeah yep then

**Speaker 1:** I just said okay you know wait to her if she has finished her drink and I said okay let's go we're gonna go just for a Farogh Square she's already been there but said you know it's it's beautiful at this time. Leading, I like it. Yes and so we went to Trafalgar Square and I sat on the fountain with her started doing some more little spiking. I noticed that Asians don't respond too well to

**Speaker 0:** sexual spiking. Yeah. They kind of go shy and they lose eye contact and they It's just a big no no in in Asia. I think Yeah. Certainly in Japan and I'm guessing therefore Korea and Taiwan. Yeah. Stuff in public is just unheard of even to look a man in the eye is very unheard of in Tokyo. So I I had you have no idea, do you, until they're in isolation. That's it. Right. So was just talking more and then I tried kissing her about

**Speaker 1:** another two times and she's getting she wouldn't have that. So I made fun of her kissing. So I said what did I say? I said, oh okay I know what it is you don't like kisses do you? You're like a little girl and kind of gave her a pat on the head and she went no no no it's just that you know in Korea we don't kiss on the first date and so I just looked at her smiled and went well we're in England and we kissed on the first day and I'm attracted to. I stood up and then just kissed her and she actually kissed that time. Boom. Love it. Yeah. Again not a heavy make out but just enough so I can go right that's cool. Then I think we stayed there for about two more minutes or three more minutes and now moved her to I moved her to the park but I do it in stages. Bounce bounce bounce? Yep. So the parks my long term goal but what I do is I go you know what let's just go over here because it's a nice walk and then we go over there and I'm just talking to her as normal. Oh I should mention this. On the way there, I'm talking about how free London is. So I'm always like, you know what's beautiful? We've got the trees here, we've got life, and inside these trees there's like living things. We've got the amazing leaves that are falling and if you zoom right out, because it's nighttime, I look up at the sky and I'm like, you know, the stars are out

**Speaker 0:** and on the other side of the world, maybe in your country career, there's people looking at those same stars. It sounds a bit romantically, but it kind of works. I think in traditional game, they used to call it our world or our world, which is you and her in a bubble looking out. That's And then I called it the Russell Brand kind of bamboozling. Because if you know Russell Brand's trick, it's to it's to basically not hypnotize, but, through the poetry of magic and the universe, which does make women wet. It's the opposite of saying, oh, you know, roses and chocolates and flowers. And also, you're cleverly saying Yeah. I love how anonymous London is. Nobody knows what you're doing and no one cares. And I like the fact that you don't seem to care. Oh yes, that's true. Yes. And you know, you don't follow societal norms or even what your family say, do you? You're very adventurous, aren't you? Yes, I am. Okay. That's great. Me too. Bang. That's the one. It's not hypnosis. It's just suggestive you could say or I think in psychology they say the yes ladder. Yep. Don't get it to say no, get it to say yes. Isn't that true? Yep. That's right.

**Speaker 1:** So what I done is moved her from Trafalgar Square down to St James's Park but on the way I do various stops so I look at this statue look how cool that is what do you think of it she's like oh yeah I really like this part of it that's nice. You know what? Go down here. There's a set of stairs I go down. I usually also just say this seems like a scene from a movie or I just pick her up and Beautiful. Run her downstairs and then pin her against the wall. Cinematic. Yeah fantastic yeah I try and create that movie every girl's waiting to live that movie yes also sometimes I actually speak about disney movies sometimes like what's your favorite disney movie yeah girls respond well to that as well. Yeah. Like it role play. Yep. And then we we run down the stairs. I pick her up, put her against this wall, kiss her, and then stop before she does. Very good. Very good. And then say, okay let's chill more down there and we cross this road. Is it dark by now? It's yeah about half nine right now. Yeah it's it's it's getting dark and it actually is quite dark. And then we go across the road on the way to we just pass the Queen's Palace but not Buckingham, another one. Yeah. She does troops in the colors. Yeah. Again, I say wave to the Queen. Tourists seem to like that as well. Very good. Try to add a bit of fun and then this is the part because there's this part where it goes into the park and it's quite dark and before I used to have problems where I used to just go let's go down here and you go down there and she's getting more scared and she's like no actually I need to go home. Of course yeah. Yeah so now what I do is I say you know what there's an amazing water fountain just down there and so I'm not saying let's go down there I'm just pointing just beyond that dark path I'm saying there's a water fountain over there let's just go and she actually commented on you know oh it seems quite dark and I was just like don't worry you're with a nice strong British man and then kept walking and we got to the the lake or the water park and then I always say okay let's just sit and chill on this bench we went on the bench and then at this point she was a bit nervous so I this happened in the moment, I just said you know what, how beautiful it is again being here, you've got the waters, you've got the ducks quacking, it's beautiful and no one cares about what we're doing like they're all in their little group doing taking pictures of each other and we're here doing our thing and no one cares about what we're doing and then I told her to relax I said let's breathe deep and do a bit of guided meditation and then but as I was getting her to relax I was saying listen to the sound of the water listen to it how relaxing is it and she's like yes it's very relaxing and then I do this thing where I also say so I say, keep listening to the water and then I kind of like kiss her as I'm

**Speaker 0:** This is very Ross Jeffries without the the crazy man weirdness. Ross Jeffries, one of the god fathers of pickup. And I do like bits of him. He does a lot of this stuff, relying also on a very deep voice, but he does the breathing, touches their stomach, visualizations. But really what's happening is that it's just very slow,

**Speaker 1:** bubble dreamy. That's the one trend. Yeah. And then she's given you the green light for everything. That's it. Because then after that, it's happened with all three girls that have been my last three park lays. You talk about called the floppy test. Yeah. When they're nuzzling into you, you're good to go. Yeah. And this is exactly what happens because you're just kissing them on their neck and their body, but then eventually they start turning their head to you. It's like a cat or a dog on your lap. Yeah? Yeah. And then you go and kiss them and this Korean girl dropped her bag and laid on the bench.

**Speaker 0:** And then you know the windows open. Yeah. Exactly.

**Speaker 1:** And then what I done is I take I took her that one I I didn't wanna do there because people are still walking past so I took her to a tree I said come and look at the stars because there's there's this point and I say over here you can look at the stars and it's awesome.

**Speaker 0:** Very nice. Very nice. A lot of people do this by the way just as an add on either in Greenwich Park or Primrose Hill. So if you don't want to do St James's Park, Greenwich has got loads of these trees and it's got a hill and Primrose Hill in summer. It's just people banging banging for England on that hill. St. James's Park. Fantastic. So you go to this tree? Yep. I go to this tree and I lay down again. I lead.

**Speaker 1:** How I lead is I basically I get on the floor first. I say look down here and then if she says she can't see the stars from where she's standing sometimes it's cloudy you actually just lay on the ground and you go if you lay down you can see the stars and they do that oh you ragamer and then I done that and then you I got on top of her, started kissing her and then obviously with this one I got quite a bit of LMR quite a bit of like oh you know how many Korean girls you've been with or Token LMR and Asian. Yep. So you're gonna get it. So we do that. But if I cut the story short, I got underneath her clothes, fingered her for a bit, and then she pretty much wanted stood there and took off her trousers. We did it there and believe it or not, a man was watching.

**Speaker 0:** Ah, the joys of London. One of my Hyde Park lays, I think I put it in a book is that I did it under a tree with this Mexican girl. Yeah. And then halfway through, she stopped and went, I went, what? And then she pointed and there was this Indian man jacking off Oh, really? In the shadows. I didn't know if he was jacking off, but he was just circling us in a hoodie. Oh, lovely. One of the joys of outdoor sex Yeah. Which girls weirdly find thrilling. But for the last just few minutes of the podcast, can you summarize the last two, like who they were? I know it was the same hustle. Basically,

**Speaker 1:** the last two were the same hustle, but I've added one more step now. Instead of doing it on the open field where everyone can see, now I go to this bush and it's a way more private place and thank God I did it last one because on the open field the last one, there was this massive the whole field just lit up and it was the police going past. Oh, good. Yeah. And she was loud the last one. So I had to calm her down just to say, okay, let's be quiet for a second. And again, she she was like, oh, what's wrong? I was like, it's just more romantic the first one was a date but were those were the other two same delays or delayed same delays again it's the same method so 20 approaches in London meet one or meet a bunch and then try and get a date

**Speaker 0:** That evening or a delayed No. The the next week. The next week. Okay. I got it. Yeah. I got it. But it's still an impressive thing to do even off a date.

**Speaker 1:** Yep. And, yeah, the last girl was Korean. One before that was French. The French one was actually surprising because she was very shy and I was almost gonna arrange a second date with Intrafact Square kissing and was like this is not really going anywhere she wasn't kissing that you know much and then I said you know what do you like rock music and she's like yeah I was like you know I've I want to show you my band and she's like yeah I'd love to hear band I said but we need to go somewhere a bit more quiet let's go down here and she even she went

**Speaker 0:** okay yeah there's actually a park down there beautiful so she actually led in that way and now I like oh it could be on french girls are my favorite for same day lays because of this but to take the message from that girl it's that yeah escalating on amber Lights and Yeah. You have this skill that you've proven with quote unquote shy girls, quote unquote good girls, introverted girls. Oh, yeah. As I tweeted today, counterintuitive, think about this if you listen in, who thinks and fantasizes about sex more? A, the girl who goes to the club Thursday, Friday, Saturday and basically gets laid in London Thursday, Friday, Saturday. Or b, the quiet, bookish, introverted girl who's in London to study and go to the museums. She hasn't had more than one or two sexual partners. Which one is more horny? It's actually the second one. Yeah. And she might be giving you these weak signals, when you're doing the talking The kissing's a bit shit. Of course, she's nervous. Wouldn't you be nervous if, you know, if you met a guy? Maybe you maybe this is your game time. You meet guys and take them to parties. You know what I mean? Yeah. So until you're in isolation, until you're getting physical, don't predict. And I say to my students, stop predicting. You have no idea. Yeah. Alright? She looks shy. She looks nervous. Who gives a shit? Until you take her in isolation and start physically escalating. Some girls jump your bones. That's a classic Asian thing. Shit date, shit kissing, or no kissing usually, in a bedroom, nuts. Yeah. Absolutely nuts. And introverted girls, virgins, you know? Yep. Sex mania, sex addicts. But anyway, we got to wrap this up sadly because of the time, but so much more to talk about, which I hope we will do somewhere abroad because you're about to travel in the future. Yeah.

**Speaker 1:** I'm off. I booked my flights next month. I got them very cheap £33

**Speaker 0:** and the plan is to keep traveling after that or this is just a taster so

**Speaker 1:** I'm getting my laptop tomorrow been saving up for it all month and then I'm plan to now basically apply for some online English teaching companies yeah and then that'll give me the freedom to travel if I work online

**Speaker 0:** yeah once you're living off your laptop as people have said for years then the game will take off. Because if you're managing to do this in London now after just just a few years of doing it, like I said, you can't really go back. You've seen what's possible. So nice to meet you, and congratulations on my rapid, rapid, rapid progress and for clearing up the summer girls of London, which needs to be done. It's a charitable thing. You've made three girls very happy. You've improved their English, I'm sure, and I've given them some summer loving yeah and they thank me oh yeah one of them said thank you very much for that yeah for fulfilling her fancy

**Speaker 1:** you know she's had boyfriends before but she's never actually done park sex so

**Speaker 0:** and that's in lover mode. You know, we were saying at the beginning you started with daygame in boyfriend mode. Now you've gone to lover mode. And before the podcast, we had a quick chat and I said to you that the sweet spot is somewhere in the middle because you need to perform both hustles. Because not every girl will go for the park lay, the toilet lay, whatever. But it's in your repertoire, nice to meet you. Thank you for doing the podcast. And yes, we'll have you on again we meet somewhere in Europe. Alright, Thomas. Carry on with your dirty shenanigans. That was podcast 73. I think the next one will be from Europe. I have no idea what oh, yeah. Do know what it's gonna be about. It's gonna be on branding, personal branding, which is something I spoke to you about actually. The one man brand. I'm not a marketer. I know nothing about doing this professionally, but I'm just gonna tell you what I've done in terms of YouTube and Instagram and Twitter and all that stuff. How you can be a one man band using your phone, your laptop, and a credit card, and a passport, and all is well. Until next week. Thank you. Bye bye.