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# Episode 91 Stealth Seduction Launch

**Speaker 0:** Tom Torero, Buenos Dias podcast. 91 South America escaping the cold of Europe right now for a month or so. I'm in South America traveling around. Here outside, it's 25 to 30 degrees daily. You've got the birds chirping. Flowers are in bloom. The sky is blue. What's not to like? Hey. Don't get me wrong. I'm a fan of winter. I'm a fan of snow. I'll be back in Europe for some skiing and some freezing temperatures. But just to be outside, to be working in an outdoor cafe, to be eating fresh, healthier food, to keep that, winter blues at bay, It's nice to be here. And I spent so bloody long indoors hunched over a laptop for parts of November and December editing Stealth Seduction that it's finally nice to be doing something else. I've started writing or rather rewriting, editing, proofreading, reordering my delayed third book, which is called cold calling. It's my accounts of daygaming and traveling in the former Soviet Union, Russia, Ukraine, Moldova, Belarus, former Iron Curtain countries, Czech Republic, Poland, also up to the Baltics, Latvia, Lithuania, Estonia. Some lay reports but some horror stories, the grimness, the beauty and the beast, the fire and the ice. I say the contradiction, the schizophrenia of the Former Soviet Union. Anyway, I've started doing that. And to kick me up the ass every day on my blog for the next thirty days or so, I'm publishing about 90% of the book in installments, following that classic serialization technique from Dickens or Dostoevsky. Publishing daily motivates me to write. I'm doing about 2,500 words a day. So if you multiply that by a month or so, you get to the volume of a book. Part one is on the blog and part two is on the blog. Maybe by the time this podcast goes out, part three will be on the blog. Where is the blog? Tomtorero.com. And Torero is spelled t o r e r o. So many guys spell it t o, r r, e r o. Now my Spanish is shit, but come on. T r t o r e r o. Tomtorero.com. That's where you'll find the serialization of cold calling. And that, drum roll, please, is where you'll find the link to my daygame infield product, which is now finished. It's called stealth seduction. If you go to my website, you can click on a link on the right hand side below street hustle or on the tabs at the top. So if you click on stealth seduction, you get a description of what is in the product. Now I chose not to go down the spammy marketing cheesy launch in your face, you know, mega hustle hard thing of spamming you with the with the launch videos and the discounts and the weird upsells. It's just there because this is how my model works with content marketing and, people that follow me. It's there. If you like what I do, if you know what I do, if you know my style of infield, if you know my style of breaking things down, if you know how I run daygame and how my models work and how things have developed in my game and in daygame in general, you can check out this product. So for the first ten, fifteen minutes of the podcast, I will talk you through, walk you through what's, in the product which is described on this page. And if you wanna skip ahead, if you're really not bothered, if you've already brought it or if you're not gonna buy it, you might wanna listen to what's inside. But the second half of the podcast will be the themes, the threads, the underlying things that run through stealth seduction. So when I was editing all this infield footage, things started popping out. Things I would do again and again and again and I'd say, that's interesting. That's a theme. I didn't know I did that. It's not until you listen to yourself, not just in daygame, but actually on dates or back at your place or her place You hear the same problems or the same things again and again and again. You work out your style and the themes emerge. Anyway, this is my a to zed Torero Toolkit in Action. It's the infield companion, you could say, to Street Hustle, my textbook. It's not just daygame. It's the texting as well, WhatsApp, Facebook Messengers, SMS, especially with the ones that finish with the lay. You'll get the correspondence to see how I got her out after the daygame stop. Yep. There's a total of just over five hours of infield video, mostly first person point of view over five hours and counting you could say because this year I'm going to add more infield video. I've just shot more here in South America of me escalating on a date, so that's going to go in. But that's enough. Five hours of infield daygame And no, it's not just the daygame, it's the dating as well. Plus, importantly, more than twelve hours coming up to thirteen hours of infield audio. So there's bits of the seduction like when she's back in your place in the bedroom or you're in her place in the bedroom, you're getting it on, token LMR, post sex interviews, kinky stuff. That's done as audio. Right? And that's all there. It's bits of the seduction process that are hard to explain, that you can't really show a beginner. It's the the mysterious element. People think, well, what happens when she's back at yours? Or what happens with the token LMR? Or what happens, right after sex? Or, what happens during sex? Right? If you really wanna go from a to zed, not just a to c with, number closing videos on YouTube, then this is the product for you. The videos are largely annotated, so you know what I'm doing. I break down the technique from street hustle. I break down where we are in the models. I break down what's happening in the video if it's not clear or the audio, and I subtitle lots of the interactions because the girls are from all over the world. I say on the, on the page, I say forget prank videos and flashy nightclub pickups, stealth seduction goes way beyond collecting these flaky numbers or taking home drunk girls. I think this is the most comprehensive daygame dating and pickup product that is all infield. So there's no long winded seminar or waffling video breakdowns to pad out the product. It's just the infields. So as I said, inside there's 15 successful seductions which lead to a notch and that includes four hours of video and eleven hours of audio. Plus, there's 12 more infields. So you get the number closes in loads of different situations. You get the instant dates, you get failed dates, you get rejections, and that totals about one and a half hours of video plus one hour plus of audio. No. It's not just one type of girl. Can I say it only works on certain types of girls? There's over 50 nationalities of girls in the product including an English girl, American girls, Canadian, Japanese, German, French, Polish, Singaporean, I think that's how you say people from Singapore, Moldovan, Spanish, Egyptian, Ukrainian, South African, Russian, Iranian. Alright? So the full spectrum. Films recorded in over 14 cities around the world last year from London to Las Vegas, and the complete spectrum of girls. Because guys once again say it only works on the the cheap girls. It doesn't work on the high quality girls. So you're gonna get the introverted shy girls, the bookish girls, religious girls, so Muslim girls as well, party girls, crazy girls, extrovert girls, bitchy girls, so the headstrong princesses, like I said, the academic girls, corporate girls, the girl next door, the innocent girl, the virgin, wallflower, the girl with tattoos, the full spectrum. Okay? So, hopefully, that'll shatter that idea of, you're only working on one type of girl. The same with, situations. Right? Not just the street. You know from my New York infield videos which are on YouTube. You see me on the street. You see me in coffee shops. You see me in bookstores. You see me in other stores. You see me in shopping centers. You see me in parks. There's even an infield on here where my wing and I, Craig and I, have picked up a girl in a strip club. Not a stripper, it's an amateur stripper night going on in this Canadian town. We pull her back to our hotel room and you hear what happens both in the hotel room and then when we pull her in the van because she wanted to try the van. We wanted to christen that RV. Beautiful stuff. She tries to call her friend, so not just a male male female threesome, but she tries to call her female friend to make it a foursome. Sadly, that doesn't happen. But you'll see, you'll see and you'll hear that. You've got a spectrum of types of girl not just in how they're behaving but in their situation in life. So single girls obviously, girls with kind of boyfriends, you know, when they say, I'm kind of seeing somebody. Girls with legit boyfriends, long term boyfriends, guys they're really bored with. There's a married woman on here. There's milfs or or one milf, think. There's girls from their late teens to their early thirties, everything in between. Different scenarios. So you got very fast pickups, the new kind of style of daygame, same day lays obviously, same night lay with the gutter game. You got first date lays, second date lays, and more on rare occasions. It's not just her coming back to mine. It's sometimes, me going to hers, dealing with poor logistics, so seducing a good in a park, in a hotel, in a van, as I said. And yet, the reality of daygame, the blowouts, some rejections, some failed dates. I might put more of that stuff on because guys have already emailed me and said, weirdly, that's their favorite thing in the product. So that's the the core of the product. And as a bonus, there is a vault section. And in that vault section, you get a lot of my old classic Torero audios, which are no longer on YouTube. They're in here to put it all together. That's two plus hours of extra audio right back from when I first started daygame. Plus, I've just added on in the vault section, you get a free PDF copy of my first book, my daygame memoir, all a 130,000 words of it from me being an Oxford nerd to me being a daygamer and then me being a professional daygamer and everything in between. So that's free in the vault section. And importantly, I decided rather than having these long winded mental masturbation video break downs where you keep stopping the infield and explaining what happens. I just run the audio and video infields, I annotate them and then to to solve the problem of what's happening, I put into the product a 50 page downloadable handbook, which is laid out with the same graphic design, the same layout as street hustle, if you know that look and that feel of things. So it goes through the techniques I'm using. I think there's over 30 routines and techniques that I use again and again and again in this product. So you can see them there. Explained. It goes through the models in a succinct format. So the daygame model, the texting model, and the dating model. And it talks you through the infields that ended with a bang, with a notch, with delay. It pulls out some key things that happened, things that you might miss on first watching or first listening. So hopefully, that's enough to, explain what is in the product and how it's the infield version of street hustle. Because street hustles, as I always say, the 10% theory in pickup, you need theory, you need underlying biology, that's street hustle. 90%, the other 90% is you going out and doing it but the problem with going out and doing it is that, yeah, you can see the daygaming fields on YouTube, but guys always say, well, what do you actually do on dates? What do you actually do with pulling the trigger? How do you get it back to yours? How do you go to hers? What do you do with token LMR? What do do with bitchy girls? What do you do with secret society stuff? We'll come on to that. I've said in this spiel, if you're a beginner, stealth seduction is good because you see situations where I have to get over approach anxiety, the spotlight effect. You see the rejections in the flakes. You see the London daygame model broken down, so I annotate it when I'm doing the open, the stack, the vibing, she hooks, the investment, the close, the bounce. Nice and simple. Yeah? You see a lot of those routines as I said, so nothing wrong in the beginning as training wheels. Learn some routines. I certainly use lots of them. Still, seven years in, so you can hear me do the classic routines, more than 30 of them that you can replicate immediately. If you're intermediate, this is key. Right? Because a beginner, yeah, is gonna be getting a kick up the ass. But if you're an intermediate, I would say this is most important. I would love to have had this product as an intermediate daygamer when I was stuck in the friendly social form of daygame, you know, daygame one point zero, just having nice chats with girls, hoping to find a yes girl, being the nice, sweet, reliable, kind primary teacher, girl said, Tom, you're so sweet. That was so nice of you to say that. No. Let's move from daygame in social mode to daygame in sexual mode. So we're moving from boyfriend to player. Yep. And if you're an intermediate, you'll see me handling the higher pressure social situations. As I said, daygaming in way more environments than just the street. So this will encourage you to get into coffee shops, indoors, higher pressure situations where people are watching you. Yeah? This will encourage you to make your dates faster, to make your pools faster, to try on different nationalities, to try on hotter girls. So that's your ticket if you're intermediate. If you're advanced, well, this really is a chance for you to compare your game with my game. And maybe you're doing 95% of what I'm doing, but there's that missing piece, the 5% and you think, what's he actually doing? Is it in the bedroom? Is it in the final bounce home? Is it, as the theme of this podcast is, to do with the secret society? Are you still doing the first kind of hustle where you're hit and run? You know, you're pretending to be her boyfriend then you're running away. Do you wanna actually move on to the second type of hustle, as I say in street hustle, where she's in on it? That's the secret society and that's how you can get girls with boyfriends, girls that are married, girls that are happy to be in open relationships. Watch me get away from the structures. So many times you see me deviate because I'm in flow. Yep. See me with those real bitchy girls where they try to blow you out straight away. They say no to the number. They give you loads of shit tests. They're cold on the date. They won't go back to yours. They're flaky on texts. See that? Listen to that. Learn how to really sexualize your pickup. Yeah? So you're getting the really fast lays in real nutty locations. Right? Real high risk wild locations. And hopefully, progress your game so the girls are younger and the girls are hotter. That's what we all want whether you like it or not. I just tweeted today. No no need to hide behind saying you're in it for self actualization or deep personal development. No. That might happen as a byproduct but you're in this to bang younger, hotter girls and be proud of it. Own it. That's what I said on Twitter today. Nothing wrong with it and this product shows why I do daygame, why I like daygame and what the results of daygame can be. A few more things from the description. I say forget relying on state and see me picking up during the day with normal energy levels. Often I'm tired. Sometimes I'm ill or hungover or croaky or depressed. There is no alcohol from the girls or me largely apart from, you know, the gutter game thing or the Las Vegas thing. No. The Las Vegas thing. I was just drinking tea, tea and honey in the gutter game Vancouver pool, same night lay. I'd had a couple of beers before because it was about 1AM in the morning. There are no noisy night clubs here. You don't need to do those crazy social freedom exercises and antics to boost your state. It's just daytime state. Yep. In a bookstore, for example. You don't need to use online dating anymore. You don't need to be the chosen. You can be the chooser so fuck Tinder. Step up. Yeah. Don't need a wing if you're intermediate or advanced. Largely, this product is me daygaming solo. There's me with Craig. You hear us in Germany doing two sets and running late night gutter game. But largely, it's just me. And it's under the radar. Yep. So move from this kind of prankish, high energy silliness, which is what makes a good viral video, you know, daygame in a Pokemon costume, to under the radar, smooth, subtle, calibrated. That's the keyword for intermediates. Yeah? Calibrated. What else? Conversational techniques. So all the stuff that I used to do in conversation king, conversation ninja, you'll see all that so you don't run out of things to say. The big one, not being the nice guy, so learning how to spike, Learning how to flirt rather than just having chitchat. Yeah? High pressure social situations as I said and using the awkwardness. That's the theme. We'll talk about that elephant in the room. Fourth wall. Learning to overcome the shit tests. They're always the same and you hear all these different girls from all around the world saying exactly the same shit tests. Even when she doesn't speak English, she's doing the fucking shit test on Google Translate. How do you overcome them? You're ready for them and you can copy my lines quite literally. How do you get contact details when she's walking off, when she's busy, when she's in a relationship? How do I do instant dates? What are the messages I send, you can read all of them, how I do pings and photo pings. On the dates, most importantly, because, you know, many guys can get numbers and go on dates that are four, five hours, four, five dates. But how do I do it in one date or two, but largely one? How do I move from chitchat to verbal escalation? Physical escalation with fractionation, obviously, to calibrate it, pulling home, going to yours, going to hers, other situations. And I say eight years ago when I started, when I was watching those first number collecting videos on YouTube, I remember from a guy called Alex in Australia, they seemed monumental to me. I was stunned that you could go out and just get a phone number using indirect mystery method on the street. I would have, as I say, I would have chopped my right arm off for something like this to be able to see the daygame, to see the instant date, see the date, know what's going on Back at yours. Right? So this is practical. I want you to use it and obviously go out and apply it. If you just watch it as fun, okay. It's it's an interesting bit of infield sociology you could say, evolutionary psychology, evolutionary biology, inaction. I'm sure, evolutionary professors would enjoy watching this because it's stuff that their students can't collect data on unless you're very good at pickup. But all this is practical. I say it's actionable. Right? It's not natural game waffle. It's not these long winded seminars. There's no woo woo self help. Mental masturbation, 100% tried and tested structures, techniques, tools. Do this. Say this. Try it here. Here's the routine. Here's the story. Here's the line. Here's how you get to the next stage. Alright? And obviously, I don't want you to become me. I don't want you to use all my material, but it's a springboard. It stabilizes. It's scaffolding. It's a framework. There's no monthly subscription. There's no weird complex shady membership tiers and unlocking things. It's just a one off payment. You get a lifetime login and the price, it's a $199 all in. Right now, that's about a 160 British pounds. And if you consider that an hour on Skype with me as a Skype consultation is a £100 and when I used to do infield training, it was more than a £100 for an hour. So for, you know, about an hour and a half Skype with me, you get as I said, five hours of infield audio, five hours of infield video and twelve hours of infield audio and more will be on its way in 2017. So that's pretty nuts. Yeah? That's what's in it. That's stealth seduction. Go to tomterrera.com and click on the link. I'll put it obviously below this podcast on YouTube and iTunes. Right. To finish. That was a little more than, than I thought but it needs to be said because guys wanna know what's in it. What are the themes? What are the threads in stealth seduction? As I said, it's about the second type of hustle largely. It's about secret society. It's not about bait and switch. So tricking the girls into boyfriend, girlfriend type of dynamics and then running away after the sex. The girls are in on it. Right? 99%, maybe a 100% you could say in this product, the girls are in on it. That's why you hear, that's why you see in the product girls cheating on their boyfriends. A young wife, not cheating on her husband because it's an open relationship. So her husband's doing it too but on the surface this, english doctor, she seems very prim and proper and professional obviously but actually she's a nymphomaniac. There are Muslim girls in it, there's a virgin in it, right? There's a late night booty call where again a very academic girl, who I've met on the street, we didn't manage to go go on a date, I tried to get her over and she says, look, it's late at night, just come to mine. Straight over, yeah, super fast lay, secret society under the radar. You'll hear girls telling me after sex or before sex with the you know the interview kind of format why they have these nice guys around, keep them in the friend zone, let them do jobs for them. You hear that in the Canadian, threesome in in the van, in the hotel. Just as, we're having sex with her, a white knight friend calls up, the guy she's been with in the bar and he's like, hey baby, did you get home okay? And she, you know, without flinching, she's like, yeah, I'm just in bed, oh I'm on my own, I'm just going to bed, thanks for your support, good night. She hangs up the phone and then Craig and I bang her again in a van. So that kind of stuff, yeah. Girls, who are 18, 19, 20, 21 in the product, they know my age and they tell me why they like older guys secretly, yeah? Why they like the 50 shades of grey thing? Why they like being dominated? Why they date guys that are not quote unquote hot. One, very beautiful girl tells me why looks matter to girls much less than men think. Yep. Girls tell me when they knew what I wanted, how they knew what I wanted, when they decided to have sex with me. Girls explain in their mind how they have lovers and providers. Girls mention the sugar daddy thing and how that works and how sometimes they feel, horny for certain guys but other guys are the stable, reliable, husband material kind of guys, the squeaky clean guys. This is all, as I said, the action version of the theory. So you've read about The Secret Society. You've heard the podcast, hopefully, one of my favorite podcasts on this channel on The Secret Society. You know it exists, but you've never seen it. You've never really heard it for real. So this is it. A to zed. How to set up a threesome with your wing. No. Not in a gay game way at all but just fulfilling many a girl's fantasy of sleeping with two guys. So how to set that up? As I said, that's in the product. Sexual techniques in the bedroom. So dealing with nymphomaniac girls, fulfilling girls' sexual fantasies behind the good girl. Case selected mask, you'll hear what girls actually do. Yep. Even the sweet innocent ones. And the thread all the way through it, as I said, is this second type of hustle. I call it fourth wall. I'm most proud in the product of the fourth wall stuff. The elephant in the room, yeah, that's calling out the awkwardness, especially spotlight stuff. But the fourth wall is the clever one. Right? It's the meta. It's the metatheatrical. What do say? It's the Brechtian, if you're aware of theater, with Brecht's epic theater. So where you break the fourth wall, you, with Brecht, he would get the actors to speak stage directions, for example. Yeah? Or you might know Tom Stoppard's Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are dead. That's a great play about a play within a play. So the play going on within the play, but it's also Hamlet. It's a very clever technique. A clearer way to explain it is to watch or rewatch a classic game film from 1986, Ferris Bueller's Day Off. And the character Bueller keeps, talking to the camera, breaking, you know, breaking the fourth wall, explaining his actions. Or my favorite film of all time and the best pickup movie of all time, Alfie 1966, the Bill Morton, novel play, but the film is the adaptation. And he also does the same thing. So yeah, it's not good to do it all the time. It's not good for beginners. You shouldn't have to explain seduction. If you if you're having to explain what you're doing, then you've done something wrong as I've said many a time. But this is something different. This is where I'm saying to the girl, look, I know that you know that I know. Right? And I'll parody seduction. I'll parody the nice guy. I'll parody the pervert. I'll parody the brute. I'll parody cheesy pickup. I'll do like the kind of nudge nudge wink wink, you know. I know what, is happening. You know what's happening. Let's get it on. And girls are in on it and you hear all the time, girls love this kind of thing because they're in on it. And that's what I'm most proud of is my technique in stealth seduction. And you see me do it, you hear me do it and it's there. That's enough to say. Coming up to half an hour. As I've said, more videos will be added this year and if you want a free copy of my book, daygame, you haven't brought it yet, then there's a PDF in the, in the vault section of the product. But thank you to the many many many many many people who have already brought it. They're working their way through it. Reviews are already coming in. They're also on my website. But it's a relief. It's a release. The baby has been born. Yeah, it was late but I'm proud of proud of all that work that I did. Of course, it was all for you. All the lays, all the notches, all the dating, all that daygame. It wasn't for me. I was selflessly doing it for you. But now we're on to cold calling. Now we're on to other things, exciting projects ahead with daygame three point zero documentaries. As I said in the last podcast. This sunshine and this healthy food is energizing me onto 2,017 hustling. Am I slowing down? No. Things are just getting more and more crazy, bigger, harder, deeper. That's what she said. Until next time.